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Post by freckles on Aug 7, 2008 14:48:43 GMT -5
I had to take her off my Buddy List She does not like me
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Post by lqdKaos on Aug 7, 2008 16:49:54 GMT -5
Are my Feelings on what I want/like in a Lady not important ? I think that is part of the issue here. What you "want/like" in a lady is important. Just that perhaps you should set your bar a bit higher Frecks. If you search for a leech, you will eventually find a leech. I am not saying that poor people are leeches, but that you keep saying that you want a poor woman that you can buy stuff for and keep fed with twinkees. You can not be on the prowl for this and hope to find someone that will love you for you and not for your twinkees (what you can offer). You almost make it sound like what you want is a poor woman so that being with you would be like a gift to her. That attitude will turn off even the poorest women, UNLESS they are a leech.
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Post by freckles on Aug 7, 2008 16:57:20 GMT -5
I dont know exactly what I am looking for I am sure God will Provide
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Post by Mel (cherry) on Aug 7, 2008 17:19:47 GMT -5
It isn't that Freck, but you view a woman as an object. It isnt like I have never ever shopped a thrift store before, or a garage sale or whatever BUT the whole statement just struck me as absurd.....maybe it was the wording; or maybe it is just the fact that I believe in being a partner with someone. Oddly enough I believe there is a lot to be said for gender roles and how they compliment each sex but ONLY if there is balance.
Kaos is correct, wishing for a brainless, big boobered woman who does nothing more than sit on a pillow while you buy her off brand ice cream from the thrift store will only attract someone who will abuse you.
Wouldn't it be better to find a sweet woman who wanted to help you with your projects, be interested in learning all your money saving habits, who will admire your...........tomatoes?
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Post by freckles on Aug 7, 2008 17:44:21 GMT -5
It isn't that Freck, but you view a woman as an object. It isnt like I have never ever shopped a thrift store before, or a garage sale or whatever BUT the whole statement just struck me as absurd.....maybe it was the wording; or maybe it is just the fact that I believe in being a partner with someone. Oddly enough I believe there is a lot to be said for gender roles and how they compliment each sex but ONLY if there is balance. Kaos is correct, wishing for a brainless, big boobered woman who does nothing more than sit on a pillow while you buy her off brand ice cream from the thrift store will only attract someone who will abuse you. Wouldn't it be better to find a sweet woman who wanted to help you with your projects, be interested in learning all your money saving habits, who will admire your...........tomatoes? Yes If I could find a Lady willing to work 1 day a week , I could double the size of my Business But, I would not insist on that
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Post by Mel (cherry) on Aug 7, 2008 17:53:06 GMT -5
You should want someone who would Freck. You deserve a partner, if not, you should just buy a blowup doll, it will do the same thing...................
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Post by Dave on Aug 7, 2008 20:03:54 GMT -5
you should just buy a blowup doll
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Post by Mel (cherry) on Aug 7, 2008 20:07:00 GMT -5
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Post by freckles on Aug 7, 2008 21:05:02 GMT -5
When I was Married I wanted it to be a team
For a Time it was
A Very Short Time
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Post by Mel (cherry) on Aug 8, 2008 7:18:35 GMT -5
Now see, that is narrowminded Freck. Just because your ex was a nut job doesn't mean that all women are. Any self respecting person should contribute to the family well being.......I would worry if they didn't!!!
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Post by freckles on Aug 8, 2008 15:46:11 GMT -5
I deleted my Cragslist Ad I got 3 responses 1 from a Black Lady 1 from a Maybe 1 from a scammer/troll The maybe is on the low side I will remake my Ad on there
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Post by sheyd on Aug 8, 2008 15:55:22 GMT -5
Freckles, I am extremely offended by your rejection of a lady based on the color of her skin. Period.
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Post by lqdKaos on Aug 8, 2008 15:58:32 GMT -5
I deleted my Cragslist Ad I got 3 responses 1 from a Black Lady 1 from a Maybe 1 from a scammer/troll The maybe is on the low side I will remake my Ad on there Freckles, I personally feel that you ought to just write off craigslist as a possible place to meet women. You are primarily going to get scammers and possibly 1 or 2 non scammers, but they will likely not live up to your standards.
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Post by freckles on Aug 8, 2008 16:02:31 GMT -5
Freckles, I am extremely offended by your rejection of a lady based on the color of her skin. Period. How many Black Men have you dated ? One of my Sisters Married someone of a Diffrent Race At Birthdays/etc it was very odd 50 Spanish People and 3 White People who could not understand what anyone was saying I would leave sooner rather than later If You like going with diffrent races than you are thats ok with me My Choices in Life are diffrent than anyone elses They are mine to make I dislike* Freska Cola Are you upset because I will not drink it ?
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Post by sheyd on Aug 8, 2008 16:35:52 GMT -5
Skin color does not equal different cultures. It is merely pigmentation. You have no idea what this person is like, what her culture is, or if she is any different from you. You only know the color of her skin. That is offensive.
The fact that you don't want someone who is of a different culture just shows your own lack of comfort with yourself, but discounting someone based on skin pigmentation is racism.
PS. Due to the extreme lack of diversity in my town, I haven't dated any black men, although I was open to it and almost went out on a date with a black man from nearby but he stopped contacting me. I don't go out of my way to find someone of ANY particular color, nor do I discount someone because of color.
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