Post by coleybaby on Feb 4, 2009 21:52:29 GMT -5
Hi everyone...
I am brand new to this site... I had an account on OJAR before it disappeared, but I didn't post much.
A little background info... I am 28 and have been separated from my AD military husband for a little more than a year now. I have no warm fuzzy feelings for him at all. As a matter of fact if it weren't for the messages saying he's on his way to pick up or drop off our son, I would make it a point to never talk to him... do I sound bitter? ;D
Anywho, I have finally stopped being scared and am trying to get out in the dating world... major problem is that I have never dated. I married my STBX when I was 17, and he was my boyfriend for 2 years before that... so he is basically all I have ever known.
I started out doing the online dating thing... I have been running into a lot of folks looking for booty calls only and I am not really into that...
But I did meet one guy that I have been chatting with for about 2 1/2 months. We made plans to meet one day for lunch but 15 mins before we were supposed to meet he had to cancel... that bummed me out a little, but i was more concerned with if and when he rescheduled....
That happened about 1 month ago...he just recently asked me to meet him for lunch again tomorrow (after a little proddig from me), but I have a work obligation so I can't make it... I asked him about Fri or over the weekend (BTW- hearing from him over the weekend is very hit or miss) he said maybe Sunday...he said he probably wouldn't know until Saturday night....
So I get the vibe that he's interested in me, but sometimes I will txt him and he never txts back and never says anything about missing my txt or not responding... and he has only called me twice... we communicate through txt and IM mostly...
Should I just come out and ask him if he's interested or wait and see where it goes?
I am brand new to this site... I had an account on OJAR before it disappeared, but I didn't post much.
A little background info... I am 28 and have been separated from my AD military husband for a little more than a year now. I have no warm fuzzy feelings for him at all. As a matter of fact if it weren't for the messages saying he's on his way to pick up or drop off our son, I would make it a point to never talk to him... do I sound bitter? ;D
Anywho, I have finally stopped being scared and am trying to get out in the dating world... major problem is that I have never dated. I married my STBX when I was 17, and he was my boyfriend for 2 years before that... so he is basically all I have ever known.
I started out doing the online dating thing... I have been running into a lot of folks looking for booty calls only and I am not really into that...
But I did meet one guy that I have been chatting with for about 2 1/2 months. We made plans to meet one day for lunch but 15 mins before we were supposed to meet he had to cancel... that bummed me out a little, but i was more concerned with if and when he rescheduled....
That happened about 1 month ago...he just recently asked me to meet him for lunch again tomorrow (after a little proddig from me), but I have a work obligation so I can't make it... I asked him about Fri or over the weekend (BTW- hearing from him over the weekend is very hit or miss) he said maybe Sunday...he said he probably wouldn't know until Saturday night....
So I get the vibe that he's interested in me, but sometimes I will txt him and he never txts back and never says anything about missing my txt or not responding... and he has only called me twice... we communicate through txt and IM mostly...
Should I just come out and ask him if he's interested or wait and see where it goes?