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Apr 3, 2009 8:59:08 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Apr 3, 2009 8:59:08 GMT -5
That Lady I have been PM'ing
She keeps talking to me
Which is Good
She is a Teacher, 40
She has not given me Her Photo or Phone number
I dont want to be PM'ing for the next ten years to someone
I want a Warm Lady to Hold and Hug and Love
She said she has been burned giving out her phone number before.
So, how long do I wait? What can I say ?
She is 1 and 1/2 hours from here
I was Randomly Clicking Ladys at Plenty of Fish
When She is the One that is now talking to me
I dont want to make her mad
Yet, I do have a Goal in mind that I will not change (I want a Wife to Love)
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Apr 3, 2009 12:11:35 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Apr 3, 2009 12:11:35 GMT -5
I have thought about it
I think She has a Wall up
And is afrad to get hurt
You cant Live and not get hurt about something
I stubbed my Little Toe
But I still have to Walk anyway
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Apr 3, 2009 12:58:18 GMT -5
Post by redskyatnight on Apr 3, 2009 12:58:18 GMT -5
Or you could give her the space she needs and continue to PM her.
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Apr 3, 2009 14:14:46 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Apr 3, 2009 14:14:46 GMT -5
Or you could give her the space she needs and continue to PM her. I will see how it goes
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Apr 3, 2009 15:28:08 GMT -5
Post by jules on Apr 3, 2009 15:28:08 GMT -5
I'm betting it's a dude or someone playing a joke.
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Apr 3, 2009 16:40:59 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Apr 3, 2009 16:40:59 GMT -5
I'm betting it's a dude or someone playing a joke. I hope not She did not find me I was Randomly PMing Ladys that are in my area
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Apr 6, 2009 11:45:08 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Apr 6, 2009 11:45:08 GMT -5
I think I will put that one on the back burner And start looking agan
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Apr 7, 2009 12:34:18 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Apr 7, 2009 12:34:18 GMT -5
I sent her a Pm
Saying I wanted her Photo and Phone number because I was Lonely and wanted to bond
I said I suppose she does not know yet if she wants to bond or not
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Apr 7, 2009 12:35:51 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Apr 7, 2009 12:35:51 GMT -5
I thought about giving her a link to my Ojar posts But, then I thoght that might Scare her off
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Apr 7, 2009 16:25:21 GMT -5
Post by rocko on Apr 7, 2009 16:25:21 GMT -5
Some people like to get an idea about how people are before they give out their picture. She may not be the prettiest person or she may be REALLY pretty and they don't want to be judged by appearance only. Give her some time.
What is that saying about patience?
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Apr 7, 2009 22:38:46 GMT -5
Post by soupnazi on Apr 7, 2009 22:38:46 GMT -5
Freckles, think of all of the good advice you have received through the years.
Think of getting to know this woman as a "pen pal" of sorts, feeling each other out before actually meeting. I completely respect where you are coming from, looking for a mate, but I would suggest that you have to respect that not every woman is going to be in the same "place" as you are, where they are wanting to "bond" right away.
Hang in there man, anything good is worth waiting for.
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Apr 9, 2009 16:23:06 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Apr 9, 2009 16:23:06 GMT -5
I think she is Skitish
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Apr 9, 2009 21:14:47 GMT -5
Post by soupnazi on Apr 9, 2009 21:14:47 GMT -5
Well...skittish is a good description of a stray cat...but for a woman that you describe as in her 40's, she has likely had at least one, if not a few, heartbreaks in her life, or dating experiences that left her with a very bad taste in her mouth.
Really, when you think about it, why are we all (or most of us) here? We got burned, we got hurt, we are trying to learn about ourselves, and trying to learn to get back "out there". It sounds like, from the very limited information you have, and that you have provided, that she is being very protective of herself. That is a quality that you would have to respect, having gone through some level of hell yourself.
Anyway, I revert back to what I said in an earlier post...try to view her as a pen pal of sorts, rather than your next partner. You may find that you make a very good friend along the way.
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Apr 10, 2009 11:39:34 GMT -5
Post by redskyatnight on Apr 10, 2009 11:39:34 GMT -5
Personally, if I got a PM from someone saying they wanted to bond, I'd think they were a freak and never reply again.
Go slowly...........
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Apr 10, 2009 12:07:09 GMT -5
Post by jules on Apr 10, 2009 12:07:09 GMT -5
Personally, if I got a PM from someone saying they wanted to bond, I'd think they were a freak and never reply again. Ditto.
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