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Post by blazinheart on Jan 2, 2008 21:33:14 GMT -5
I've always, always, always dated women of weak character. I married a woman of weak character. These women were nearly void of any personality whatsoever in addition to the fact that knew almost nothing of love.
One thing these women of my past all had in common was looks. They were all attractive. And because i'm an idiot and probably have always been an idiot, I disregard the fact that they have nothing of substance to offer.
There's two women who are knew in my workplace. They are sweet girls and they like me, and I like them. I've been spending time getting to know them over the past month or so, just friend kind of stuff.
One of the girls is intelligent, outgoing, and seems very solid in the personality and character department. But she's not as attractive as the other girl who is cute as hell but a bit...dreary as far as personality goes.
Of course I'm going to spend most of my time henceforth with the hawt one, and end up ruining any chance with the intelligent one. But that's why i'm an idiot.
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Post by Chaos40 on Jan 2, 2008 21:36:39 GMT -5
I never thought you were an idiot cause of this
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 2, 2008 21:44:46 GMT -5
I never thought you were an idiot cause of this Seeing as how I'm always in unfullfilling, unloving relationships with shallow women, i'd say my choice to get involved with them time and time again makes me an idiot.
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Post by finding on Jan 2, 2008 22:07:11 GMT -5
I never thought you were an idiot cause of this Seeing as how I'm always in unfullfilling, unloving relationships with shallow women, i'd say my choice to get involved with them time and time again makes me an idiot. You can always chose a different direction.
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Post by Chaos40 on Jan 2, 2008 22:12:20 GMT -5
Seeing as how I'm always in unfullfilling, unloving relationships with shallow women, i'd say my choice to get involved with them time and time again makes me an idiot. You can always chose a different direction. homosexuality is NOT an option at least not for me it isn't
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 2, 2008 22:28:42 GMT -5
You can always chose a different direction. I try that, but then I always end up hooking up with the hawt ones. I'm shallow. And that may cause me to remain single for the rest of my life. For some reason, I'd rather watch a hawt girl take a shower than have a deep discussion with an intelligent girl.
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Post by Chaos40 on Jan 2, 2008 22:29:59 GMT -5
You can always chose a different direction. For some reason, I'd rather watch a hawt girl take a shower than have a deep discussion with an intelligent girl. you and just about every other male on the planet
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 2, 2008 22:32:58 GMT -5
For some reason, I'd rather watch a hawt girl take a shower than have a deep discussion with an intelligent girl. you and just about every other male on the planet Yes but, in order to maintain a meaningful, long term relationship, it helps if the woman has half a brain or half a personality. And usually, hawties lack both. I guess, i'm just considering settling down again and I'll never do it if I keep up my old habits.
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Post by finding on Jan 2, 2008 22:34:18 GMT -5
You can always chose a different direction. I try that, but then I always end up hooking up with the hawt ones. I'm shallow. And that may cause me to remain single for the rest of my life. For some reason, I'd rather watch a hawt girl take a shower than have a deep discussion with an intelligent girl. You know women can be hawt AND intelligent. You are just looking in the wrong places.
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Post by Chaos40 on Jan 2, 2008 22:34:21 GMT -5
you and just about every other male on the planet Yes but, in order to maintain a meaningful, long term relationship, it helps if the woman has half a brain or half a personality. And usually, hawties lack both. . I know lots of hotties with half a brain
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 2, 2008 22:37:56 GMT -5
Yes but, in order to maintain a meaningful, long term relationship, it helps if the woman has half a brain or half a personality. And usually, hawties lack both. . I know lots of hotties with half a brain Yeah, me too. They're good for short term flings, not much else.
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Post by ladyj on Jan 2, 2008 22:39:12 GMT -5
With that attitude Blazin, you wont be bouncing any grandbabies on your knees in the future. I dont like how you speak of women . I am sure any potential hottie with a brain and personality would find it a huge turn off as well. you and just about every other male on the planet Yes but, in order to maintain a meaningful, long term relationship, it helps if the woman has half a brain or half a personality. And usually, hawties lack both.I guess, i'm just considering settling down again and I'll never do it if I keep up my old habits.
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Post by Chaos40 on Jan 2, 2008 22:41:39 GMT -5
I know lots of hotties with half a brain Yeah, me too. They're good for short term flings, not much else. I prefer much longer "friends with benefits" type flings myself no reason to cut a good thing short
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 2, 2008 22:41:58 GMT -5
With that attitude Blazin, you wont be bouncing any grandbabies on your knees in the future. I dont like how you speak of women . I am sure any potential hottie with a brain and personality would find it a huge turn off as well. I'm beginning to think that 'hawtie with a brain' is a contradiction in terms. I've never met one, that I can recall anyway.
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Post by ladyj on Jan 2, 2008 22:43:28 GMT -5
Rediculous and you know it. With that attitude Blazin, you wont be bouncing any grandbabies on your knees in the future. I dont like how you speak of women . I am sure any potential hottie with a brain and personality would find it a huge turn off as well. I'm beginning to think that 'hawtie with a brain' is a contradiction in terms. I've never met one, that I can recall anyway.
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