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Post by redskyatnight on Mar 26, 2008 16:01:47 GMT -5
Hey Goods,
I don't know what to say, except that I'm sorry you are going through this again. You are a great soul and you will get through this. I hope you are enjoying your walk.
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Post by gdgross on Mar 26, 2008 18:55:39 GMT -5
Thanks Lumpy, she is not my problem anymore.... but I still care. To me that woman is dead, lost forever. That's a powerful thought that you need to hold onto. You care about the person she was or the person you thought she was, not the person she is now. I know that reasoning helped me quite a bit. +1 It helped me a lot, too. The woman I was in love with no longer exists. She has changed into something entirely different. All the best, goods.
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Post by rocko on Mar 26, 2008 21:29:03 GMT -5
Going back to no contact wouldn't be a bad choice...IMHO
((((HUGS))))
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Post by goods on Mar 26, 2008 22:21:51 GMT -5
Thanks GD
No contact or very nearly no contact would be the wise choice.....Rocko.... it is a shame.
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Post by rocko on Mar 27, 2008 14:19:27 GMT -5
so are you going back to no contact or will you continue to poison yourself?
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Post by goods on Mar 27, 2008 14:23:10 GMT -5
I am back to no contact.... And I have been able to control any urges I've had to contact her thus far. She was "concerned" about seeing our dogs, which I think is mostly an excuse to lean on me. I told her that anytime she wants to see them, to email me and we can arrange a time/place.
Wish me luck.
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Post by rocko on Mar 27, 2008 15:06:00 GMT -5
One or the other of you needs to take the dogs and the other needs to move on with their life.
I know they are like children, but she is just making an excuse to keep throwing you backwards.
I am praying for you and sending lots of good luck vibes your way.
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Post by goods on Mar 27, 2008 15:11:56 GMT -5
Thanks Rocko... I officially am dog sitting until she finds a new place to live. She doesn't stay at her place often since her neighbor, who she was dating and basically lived with for the past 3 months, dumped her. And that's when she came running back to me.
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Post by goods on Mar 27, 2008 15:14:20 GMT -5
Yes... I am a fool.
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Post by Saucy on Mar 27, 2008 16:05:56 GMT -5
stop it. i got something to cheer ya up!
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Post by goods on Mar 27, 2008 16:35:49 GMT -5
stop it. i got something to cheer ya up! yea? I am actually balancing out a bit now.
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Post by goods on Mar 27, 2008 17:17:49 GMT -5
My son thinks I should never speak with her again..... Did I ever tell ya what a bright kid he is?
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Post by goods on Mar 27, 2008 18:23:01 GMT -5
If given the chance to give Karma a push, should I?
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Post by Phoenixx on Mar 27, 2008 18:24:34 GMT -5
Will you feel bad and regret?
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Post by goods on Mar 27, 2008 18:25:23 GMT -5
probably... but it is well deserved
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