Rocko is right, Freck. When the right woman comes along for you, she'll appreciate you and who you are at heart.
I generally love Oprah, but she did a show several yrs ago about some woman that had been proposed to something like 17 times. The show was about her secret. Well, if I made myself up like a hooker and hung out in bars, I'd be proposed to that many times too. I lost a lot of respect for her w/ that show.
My point is, the pickier you are, the slimmer the pickens. That's not a bad thing, just a fact. You want a good woman that shares your values....well that narrows the field, right?