Post by finding on Jan 29, 2008 15:18:13 GMT -5
OMG, I think I have heard it all at this point. R was mentally unstable, and had been for years. He was a grown man and hell bent on destroying me and your grandkids. His own actions are what caused his death, not S. He chose to end his life after his actions to destroy me didn't work.
You can't blame some woman whom he hadn't spoken to in months told him she had moved on and to leave her alone. He was stalking her and she had every right to tell him to leave her alone.
The drugs, alcohol, and the mental illness were what destroyed him. Not someone who told him to leave her alone. I told you today that I know what the last straw for him was. His lies didn't work and I had regained custody of the kids and his claims of fraud on my part where false. He wanted me in federal prision seeing as how I didn't lose the kids through the state, he wanted to take them away from me permanently and see me pay because I left him and had moved on with my life.
You don't want to hear it though, you want someone real and living to blame. She didn't do it, he did.
One more thing, I would have never gone back to him after all the mess had died down. He tried to kill me, hurt our son, and was sexually explicit in front of our daughter to name a few things. It doesn't matter if he had gone through a treatment program and gotten the help he needed. I would NEVER gone back to him to save face for you.
So what you have a divorced daughter, there are worse things than that to face in this world. Quit blaming people for his actions, you weren't there and you have no idea what went on.
He was a monster, plain and simple and no one but him made him jump off that bridge but him. He wasn't man enough to face the mess he made. There is only one person to blame in this mess and he is dead.
You can't blame some woman whom he hadn't spoken to in months told him she had moved on and to leave her alone. He was stalking her and she had every right to tell him to leave her alone.
The drugs, alcohol, and the mental illness were what destroyed him. Not someone who told him to leave her alone. I told you today that I know what the last straw for him was. His lies didn't work and I had regained custody of the kids and his claims of fraud on my part where false. He wanted me in federal prision seeing as how I didn't lose the kids through the state, he wanted to take them away from me permanently and see me pay because I left him and had moved on with my life.
You don't want to hear it though, you want someone real and living to blame. She didn't do it, he did.
One more thing, I would have never gone back to him after all the mess had died down. He tried to kill me, hurt our son, and was sexually explicit in front of our daughter to name a few things. It doesn't matter if he had gone through a treatment program and gotten the help he needed. I would NEVER gone back to him to save face for you.
So what you have a divorced daughter, there are worse things than that to face in this world. Quit blaming people for his actions, you weren't there and you have no idea what went on.
He was a monster, plain and simple and no one but him made him jump off that bridge but him. He wasn't man enough to face the mess he made. There is only one person to blame in this mess and he is dead.