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Ojar
May 29, 2008 15:25:55 GMT -5
Post by sheyd on May 29, 2008 15:25:55 GMT -5
He isn't even responding to pms. I wish he would, though - I miss it, trolls and all. Sorry, PQ - not because I don't like this place - I LOVE the quiet peacefulness of it! I just also like feeling useful to newbies! Shey
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Ojar
May 29, 2008 17:32:31 GMT -5
Post by freckles on May 29, 2008 17:32:31 GMT -5
People should resond to Pms/Emails
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Ojar
May 31, 2008 9:35:23 GMT -5
Post by Kim Possible on May 31, 2008 9:35:23 GMT -5
I just also like feeling useful to newbies! I haven't been here in quite a while. But i signed on today b/c I was bored, and was in a good, "supportive" mood, so I wanted to see if there were any newbies on. It seems like I haven't really missed much... same ol' people that are just posting random thoughts. I was glad I found this thread, and see now that there has been no update in ojar-town . To me, it's bittersweet. Thankfully, I haven't needed ojar or hugthat (I never thought I'd reach that stage in my post-marital life), but it's always a nice place to visit, and catch up on what's going on with you guys. I certainly do not miss the bulls**t of the ojar days, but I do miss hearing about everyones ex's dating experiences and kids.
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 9:27:59 GMT -5
Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Jul 23, 2008 9:27:59 GMT -5
Looks like Michael has been busy in the recording studio.. gettin his CD out
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 10:32:47 GMT -5
Post by shattered on Jul 23, 2008 10:32:47 GMT -5
I'm clearly too naive to be let out on my own -- Ojar was crawling with trolls??? I thought the Chaos and Wizer types just liked saying goofy and provocative stuff, but I thought they were for real. Aren't trolls totally fake personas? I really thought that 99 percent of people on ojar, ojaroo,and hugthat were/are there because they are or were geuninely hurting, and are looking for support and want to offer support to others. Wait, maybe everything is fake -- like in The Matrix?
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 11:05:16 GMT -5
Post by jules on Jul 23, 2008 11:05:16 GMT -5
Wait, maybe everything is fake -- like in The Matrix? ooh, I like that theory. After all, "all the world's a stage..."
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 12:02:09 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Jul 23, 2008 12:02:09 GMT -5
Wait, maybe everything is fake -- like in The Matrix? I can tell you need my expert experience I will help you What you see in the Movies is not real Well unless you see the 10 Commandments or the Passion of the Christ Stuff like that is REAL I wish you lived Closer , I feel I could Help you a Lot God is Real Good is Real and Evil is Real Everything you thought that you know Is Not Real If you have questions feel free to PM me
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 15:34:58 GMT -5
Post by shattered on Jul 23, 2008 15:34:58 GMT -5
Wait, maybe everything is fake -- like in The Matrix? I can tell you need my expert experience I will help you What you see in the Movies is not real Well unless you see the 10 Commandments or the Passion of the Christ Stuff like that is REAL I wish you lived Closer , I feel I could Help you a Lot God is Real Good is Real and Evil is Real Everything you thought that you know Is Not Real If you have questions feel free to PM me You are Nice
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 15:45:15 GMT -5
Post by goods on Jul 23, 2008 15:45:15 GMT -5
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 15:52:05 GMT -5
Post by lumpy on Jul 23, 2008 15:52:05 GMT -5
Wait, maybe everything is fake -- like in The Matrix? I can tell you need my expert experience I will help you What you see in the Movies is not real Well unless you see the 10 Commandments or the Passion of the Christ Stuff like that is REAL I wish you lived Closer , I feel I could Help you a Lot God is Real Good is Real and Evil is Real Everything you thought that you know Is Not Real If you have questions feel free to PM me Are you trying to say that WRESTLING is not real? www.youtube.com/watch?v=BvTNyKIGXiI
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 16:01:17 GMT -5
Post by hoodieprincess on Jul 23, 2008 16:01:17 GMT -5
Honestly, I kind of miss the hustle and bustle of ojar. But, more than anything, I like the security of this place. Sure, it may be kind of quiet sometimes but I also feel that we are all more used to eachother and with that I think there is a trust that comes with it. It feels safe to post personal things (something to which I had stopped doing on ojar mostly). I can come here for me instead of *just* to respond to others with advice. So, thanks Kermie. I really appreciate your keeping this place rolling.
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 17:19:38 GMT -5
Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Jul 23, 2008 17:19:38 GMT -5
My pleasure
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 19:55:02 GMT -5
Post by pennylane on Jul 23, 2008 19:55:02 GMT -5
Honestly, I kind of miss the hustle and bustle of ojar. But, more than anything, I like the security of this place. Sure, it may be kind of quiet sometimes but I also feel that we are all more used to eachother and with that I think there is a trust that comes with it. It feels safe to post personal things (something to which I had stopped doing on ojar mostly). I can come here for me instead of *just* to respond to others with advice. So, thanks Kermie. I really appreciate your keeping this place rolling.
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 21:30:26 GMT -5
Post by soupnazi on Jul 23, 2008 21:30:26 GMT -5
Ojar was kind of a "lifeline" if you will. For me, it was the place I found when I typed "divorce support" into Google...when I couldn't afford to even pay bills, much less pay a therapist.
Did it have its downfalls? A TON. But for me, it gave me a place where I could put down my thoughts, draw support from others, realize that what I was going through was no more, or no less painful than others, and I met one of my very best friends through Ojar.
So...for me, at this point in my life, I am glad that it was there when I needed it...but much like my marriage, I am glad it is just a memory.
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Ojar
Jul 23, 2008 22:53:05 GMT -5
Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Jul 23, 2008 22:53:05 GMT -5
yea but the sad thing is, for some of us we just want it to be a memory.. for others it is still that google search in hopes of finding someone else that is going though the same thing at the same time.
Just cause we cast off the shore.. does not mean we should forget those that are just finding their way to it.
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