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Ojar
Jul 25, 2008 15:49:36 GMT -5
Post by Mel (cherry) on Jul 25, 2008 15:49:36 GMT -5
I'm not sure that is 100% true Shey. Partially though I agree with not wanting to be dealing with all the fighting.
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Ojar
Jul 25, 2008 16:47:00 GMT -5
Post by sheyd on Jul 25, 2008 16:47:00 GMT -5
Well - that is pretty much what he told me straight out. Without actually copying the pm...
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Ojar
Jul 26, 2008 9:27:35 GMT -5
Post by Mel (cherry) on Jul 26, 2008 9:27:35 GMT -5
Well that would be a different version than others have......
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Ojar
Jul 26, 2008 12:37:32 GMT -5
Post by jules on Jul 26, 2008 12:37:32 GMT -5
He didn't want to hook to here, because there were still so many people using the old threads in their healing process. People are spending time on a dead message board?? I highly doubt that. At least he could provide a link in the "important notice" section where he says the board is dead. (Also, I really wish I'd known that my posts would be google-searchable before the site closed -- I'd have deleted a lot of posts... )
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Ojar
Jul 26, 2008 18:57:11 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Jul 26, 2008 18:57:11 GMT -5
I can post there if I want to I am Premium
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Ojar
Jul 26, 2008 18:57:39 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Jul 26, 2008 18:57:39 GMT -5
No one is there anymore
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Ojar
Jul 26, 2008 22:47:30 GMT -5
Post by soupnazi on Jul 26, 2008 22:47:30 GMT -5
Jules, I am with ya, about deleting some posts. Maybe just for privacy or just trying to forget a part of my life...but i wish it wasn't searchable there.
Oh well. Much the same as I live my life everyday and say what I mean...I meant what I said back then.
I guess think of it as a public expose of you dealing with your pain, that you chose to make public yourself. I will stand by anything I ever said on Ojar, I am sure you would too, as it was things that you were dealing with at the time.
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Ojar
Jul 27, 2008 11:47:46 GMT -5
Post by lumpy on Jul 27, 2008 11:47:46 GMT -5
Have you guys noticed there's a new graphic on the opening page? It's a CD ad for divorce tips and such. I never noticed that before...
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Ojar
Jul 27, 2008 16:07:45 GMT -5
Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Jul 27, 2008 16:07:45 GMT -5
yea that's why I said he was busy in the recording studio
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Ojar
Jul 27, 2008 17:48:55 GMT -5
Post by lumpy on Jul 27, 2008 17:48:55 GMT -5
yea that's why I said he was busy in the recording studio I missed that the first time around. Maybe that's a sign that he's gearing it up again? Why put a new ad on a dead site?
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Ojar
Jul 27, 2008 21:00:35 GMT -5
Post by redskyatnight on Jul 27, 2008 21:00:35 GMT -5
yea that's why I said he was busy in the recording studio Why put a new ad on a dead site? Probably because its still getting hits and any advertising will help.
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Ojar
Jul 28, 2008 8:42:23 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Jul 28, 2008 8:42:23 GMT -5
Maybe Sheyed and some of y'all could volunteer to be Moderators
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Ojar
Jul 28, 2008 8:52:17 GMT -5
Post by jules on Jul 28, 2008 8:52:17 GMT -5
Have you guys noticed there's a new graphic on the opening page? It's a CD ad for divorce tips and such. I never noticed that before... Am I the only one who got the email advertising the CD?
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Ojar
Jul 28, 2008 12:01:28 GMT -5
Post by sheyd on Jul 28, 2008 12:01:28 GMT -5
I offered to be a moderator, but I am not technically savvy enough, and I am only one person. He outright said that it was the fact that there wasn't the help to moderate it and that the trolls won.
I would be really interested to hear what other versions people have? Granted, I haven't spoken to him as much as I did at various points, but he has responded directly to my pms - I am sure he would to anyone else who sent to him as well? Anyone who used to be premium can still post and pm. If you can't, send me a pm here and I will send it to him for you and copy you the response.
I think I got the CD email, too, I delete those things right away. I am pretty far out from my divorce. He does still get lots of hits, though, and people searching the boards... so I'm sure it still works for advertising too.
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Ojar
Jul 28, 2008 12:24:56 GMT -5
Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Jul 28, 2008 12:24:56 GMT -5
Nov 18th - ojar.com/boards/index.php/topic,50245.0.html He did have help.. just never finished the training with them.. and decided to shut down instead. its his life though and he can pretty much do what ever he pleases.
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