Post by kittenhart on May 7, 2008 20:51:16 GMT -5
The ex came over tonite to drop off our pets ( as per pet share agreement) and comes in to give me all the junk mail I don't want from his house and sits down in the kitchen and tries to chat to me.....unasked. It was literally like trying to translate from another language it was so awkward.
He was looking at all the cards and notes I had on the kitchen table from my friends, coworkers and students from my surgery (as if he somehow has a right too now) and said, "It looks like a Ms. G shrine here"....what is that? Jealousy? Of notes from my students??
And then he asked who the flowers were from....I told him it wasn't any of his business but they were from some other teachers at work. "Hmmmf" he says....
(whatever......just leave faster, dude)
Then he sees that I have a copy of the movie "Juno" on the coffee table....."Have you seen this yet?" he says.
I just looked him straight in the eyes and said "Yes...."
(That movie was cute but it had a scene at the end that was brutal as so much like him and I)
Then I could see him back pedalling as he lied "I haven't seen it yet.....so don't say how it ends".....why bother lying? We both know the truth.
omg.....I don't know why he feels the need to keep on trying to "be friends". He had fourteen years of my friendship and love and tossed it so why the hell does he keep at this now. We really have hardly any contact now except to exchange the pets, so I wish he wouldn't pry so much and try to chat so much during the exchanges.
I don't want to keep up the pigeon English anymore. I'm too tired.
I felt relief as I turned the deadbolt behind him. Seriously.
How sad is that?
He was looking at all the cards and notes I had on the kitchen table from my friends, coworkers and students from my surgery (as if he somehow has a right too now) and said, "It looks like a Ms. G shrine here"....what is that? Jealousy? Of notes from my students??
And then he asked who the flowers were from....I told him it wasn't any of his business but they were from some other teachers at work. "Hmmmf" he says....
(whatever......just leave faster, dude)
Then he sees that I have a copy of the movie "Juno" on the coffee table....."Have you seen this yet?" he says.
I just looked him straight in the eyes and said "Yes...."
(That movie was cute but it had a scene at the end that was brutal as so much like him and I)
Then I could see him back pedalling as he lied "I haven't seen it yet.....so don't say how it ends".....why bother lying? We both know the truth.
omg.....I don't know why he feels the need to keep on trying to "be friends". He had fourteen years of my friendship and love and tossed it so why the hell does he keep at this now. We really have hardly any contact now except to exchange the pets, so I wish he wouldn't pry so much and try to chat so much during the exchanges.
I don't want to keep up the pigeon English anymore. I'm too tired.
I felt relief as I turned the deadbolt behind him. Seriously.
How sad is that?