I unintentionally chased bobinacctg off the boards. I was trying to be honest about how I felt, and instead made him feel he had to leave. It wasn't my intention, by any stretch!
If he reads this, or if anyone talks to him, please convey that I have no intention of bringing anything up again. I will leave it and him alone if that is his wish, there is no reason he shouldn't be able to stop by here whenever he wants to - especially not because of me!
Again, sorry bob - and sorry hugthat for chasing him off.