I am not only not trying to fit into another shape - I actually LIKE my shape (figuratively speaking). I am happy to let others take whatever shape they want, but I ENJOY my shape, for me. I wouldn't want to be some of the other things I could be - they seem either a waste of time or self, or unfulfilling. The other ways, for me, would be ways to cover the fact that I didn't have what I want in life. Except I DO (have what I want in life, I mean). Pretty good place to be.