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Post by freckles on Jul 29, 2008 12:59:55 GMT -5
I got a response to my Personals Ad The Lady is Poor ( Which is a Plus ) BUT She says She is living with Her Boyfriend and that he will not work and gambled his last $20.00 etc etc I told Her I cant go with someone that is Married I am thinking Her living with Her Boyfriend also counts like She is married. Maybe I should Tell her she would have to be Single for at least a year or two (Maybe 3 ? ) And living by Herself before She can date me Or I think it is just a Bad responce to my Personals Ad and delete it Help
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Post by sheyd on Jul 29, 2008 13:14:27 GMT -5
I think you have already said enough if you said you wouldn't go with married. Just drop it, I'm sure she will too.
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Post by freckles on Jul 29, 2008 13:36:39 GMT -5
I think you have already said enough if you said you wouldn't go with married. Just drop it, I'm sure she will too. That is true
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Post by redskyatnight on Jul 29, 2008 14:59:13 GMT -5
I don't know. This woman could be perfect for Freckles. Desperatly needing to get out of a relationship, she finds a man desperately needing someone to take care of.
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Post by JimB on Jul 29, 2008 15:04:40 GMT -5
Desperatly needing to get out of a relationship, she finds a man desperately needing someone to take care of. Do you write promos for made-for-tv miniseries on Oxygen?
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Post by redskyatnight on Jul 29, 2008 16:09:23 GMT -5
Desperatly needing to get out of a relationship, she finds a man desperately needing someone to take care of. Do you write promos for made-for-tv miniseries on Oxygen? That would be a lot more fun than what I do now! ;D
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Post by rocko on Jul 30, 2008 8:09:20 GMT -5
If what you want is a needy person who will use you (this is what you have said, just not in the same words) then give this girl a chance.
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Post by freckles on Jul 30, 2008 8:45:02 GMT -5
If what you want is a needy person who will use you (this is what you have said, just not in the same words) then give this girl a chance. I will not break someone up, even if they are going to break up anyway. That is not in my nature. What I want is a Woman who wants to be clingy and pregnant and dependent on me for everything Barefoot and Pregnant I am diffrent in She would not have to lift a finger and I would bring her Food and carry her on a pillow I am hopeful Someday
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Post by lqdKaos on Jul 30, 2008 10:30:23 GMT -5
What I want is a Woman who wants to be clingy and pregnant and dependent on me for everything Barefoot and Pregnant I am diffrent in She would not have to lift a finger and I would bring her Food and carry her on a pillow I am hopeful Someday Freckles: Unfortunately, I think it is this type of attitude that will lead you into another abusive relationship. I am not saying anything bad about you. I think it is admirable that you want to treat your woman with the utmost reverence. You want to treat her like a queen. But it is that behaviour that will lead her to abuse it. You keep giving everything, and she continues to take. Giving more will eventually lead her to believe she is entitled to it. Then one day you are sick and unable to bring her food on a pillow....Then all hell breaks loose. I do think you want to treat your woman well, but I think you need to stop looking for a woman that wants to be barefoot and pregnant....Just my opinion.
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Post by freckles on Jul 30, 2008 12:33:44 GMT -5
Giving more will eventually lead her to believe she is entitled to it. Then one day you are sick and unable to bring her food on a pillow....Then all hell breaks loose. I never thought about it like that
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Post by freckles on Jul 30, 2008 18:04:07 GMT -5
Now I am confused
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Post by freckles on Jul 30, 2008 20:23:18 GMT -5
How much Work would a Woman want to do ?
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Post by rocko on Jul 31, 2008 8:51:11 GMT -5
I think everyone woman is different.
I personally like to try to pull my own weight. I work as many hours as my husband does. I go to school full time. I like it that way. Of course he makes twice what I make, but that is FINE by me.
A life living at home full time jsut to get fat and wait for you to return sound HORRID to me. So boring and unfullfilling.
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Post by jules on Jul 31, 2008 9:01:37 GMT -5
I will say that some women who don't have a whole lot going on upstairs and/or who lack ambition would probably be perfectly content to let the husband handle all of the responsibilities. And I don't mean it as a slam. My aunt is like this. Her (older, shorter, much less attractive) husband, second marriage for both, instructs her in how to do everything -- what she should wear, how she can assist him in the kitchen, what she should and should not buy, etc.) It drives the rest of the family crazy, but apparently it works for them... (though she drinks daily... not sure if that's related to that sort of life or personality...)
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Post by rocko on Jul 31, 2008 9:09:25 GMT -5
What is the chance of him finding this type of lady online?
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