So I can buy Her Food and Clothes from the Thrift Stores and stuff
She has Emailed me and even gave me her Name !
You know Frecks, i think I found a possible issue in your approach...I dont know for sure, but....its definitely a possibility.
In my experience, women do not like to be told they work too much. They work because it pays the bills. If she is working 2 jobs, its not because she wants to.
Also, it is the year 2008, self respecting women, while they like to be taken care of, know how to take care of themselves. They dont need a man to buy them food and clothes, from the thrift shop or any other store for that matter.
I think you need to change your expectations. IMHO, you are looking for the wrong type of person. Using your criteria will only attract another abuser. I think I posted this once before, but you keep saying you want someone that you can bring food to and buy stuff at the thrift shop for. For her, at first it will be really nice. Then it will only be a matter of time before she starts to expect it. Soon she will begin to feel entitled to it. Then, one day, you will be unable to live up to that entitlement because you are sick, and BOOM all hell breaks loose.
I dont think quality women want to live in a house, barefoot and pregnant, eating twinkees while wearing second hand lingerie, watching Fox News.
I thing you should start looking for a woman who knows who she is and is able to take care of herself. In that, you will find a non-abuser that will love you for you and not for what you will buy her. There are many women like this that would love to have kids with you and help raise them right.
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