Agreed, physical attraction is very important and if he is not attracted to a certain skin color, then he's not. Doesnt necessarily mean that he thinks they are bad. For instance, I am not attracted to Asian women. Many of my friends are asian women, but I find myself unattracted to them....Reason, my mother is asian, and everytime I look at an asian woman, I see my mother. So its not that I dislike Asians, I just am not attracted to them.
However Freckles, what makes you think that her family would be Black Panthers, or that children would come out albino? I dont get that... That could be one of the most backwards comments I have heard in a long time.
Oh, and I hope you don't discount the woman with tattoos.
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming -- WOW--What a Ride!"
Freckles, I don't think you should date out of your race. I believe this for a different reason than you. I don't think you will give her the respect that is deserved. You have a really bad habit of sterotyping people. I am sure there are people out there who dont' like you because you are white. I don't think that makes everyone that isn't white that way. I have few friends that are not white because of where I live, but when I lived in an area that had more of a mix of people I had friends from all different ethnic backgrounds. If you had been blindfolded in a group of my friends you would not know what color the skin was of the people in the room. People are people, quit prejudging.
I'd be more concerned with him dating outside his species.
Brick walls are there for a reason. They are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. The brick walls are there to stop people who don't want it badly enough.