It's been almost 3 years since you moved out of our home and about a year and a half since our divorce was finalized. I've been thinking a lot about apologies lately and have learned that forgiveness primarily helps the forgiver.
I am truly sorry that I stayed in our marriage for so freaking long. Guess I always thought things would change, that you would stop being such an angry woman, that you would start acting like a decent human being and start treating me like...what was your phrase?...oh yeah... "The love of your life." I'm sorry I didn't throw your sorry a*s out sooner and save myself all the grief you put me through. But then maybe I wouldn't have learned so much.
But I digress....
Just to make things perfectly clear, I want you to know that I am happily divorced and enjoy going through my days without someone getting on my case about some real or perceived wrong I must have done.
I know I'm better than that, so I'm forgiving you.
My wish for you is to finally figure out that the world and all its inhabitants are not out to get you, and that you find someone to love you who will actually enjoy taking your verbal abuse daily, and actually thrive on it.
Yep, sure did but I kinda tucked it somewhere most people might not see ;D I will fill you in with all the details............I even have a blog set up if you want to pm me your email I can add ya.....
~'Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.'~
"You aren't just lying, you're slowing down the progress of all mankind. ..YOU....DOUCHE!! ~Stan~
Actually I have forgiven her AND forgiven myself for letting myself get caught up in something that never should have happened. What I wrote (above) musta been a brain fart or something... I actually do wish her happiness, and I know she was doing the best she could.