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Post by ironman on Sept 17, 2008 15:10:22 GMT -5
Dear Ms. Magnolia, It's been almost 3 years since you moved out of our home and about a year and a half since our divorce was finalized. I've been thinking a lot about apologies lately and have learned that forgiveness primarily helps the forgiver. That said... I am truly sorry that I stayed in our marriage for so freaking long. Guess I always thought things would change, that you would stop being such an angry woman, that you would start acting like a decent human being and start treating me like...what was your phrase?...oh yeah... "The love of your life." I'm sorry I didn't throw your sorry a*s out sooner and save myself all the grief you put me through. But then maybe I wouldn't have learned so much. But I digress.... Just to make things perfectly clear, I want you to know that I am happily divorced and enjoy going through my days without someone getting on my case about some real or perceived wrong I must have done. I know I'm better than that, so I'm forgiving you. My wish for you is to finally figure out that the world and all its inhabitants are not out to get you, and that you find someone to love you who will actually enjoy taking your verbal abuse daily, and actually thrive on it. There, I feel so much better! ;D ;D iron man
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Post by Mel (cherry) on Sept 17, 2008 16:41:32 GMT -5
Hi Ironman
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Post by ironman on Sept 17, 2008 21:10:27 GMT -5
Hi Cherry..... I'm dancing in the rain here... how bout you?
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Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Sept 17, 2008 21:56:40 GMT -5
Good to see you ironman..... and very well put
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Post by Mel (cherry) on Sept 18, 2008 5:43:29 GMT -5
Hi Cherry..... I'm dancing in the rain here... how bout you? Yep ditto. Just got engaged actually.
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Post by ironman on Sept 18, 2008 18:49:21 GMT -5
Hey Kermie...
ANd hi Cherry... engaged?
No way?
I'm so happy for you and wish you all the best. Shoot, you deserve it for all you've been through. When's the wedding?
keep in touch.
iron man.
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Post by Mel (cherry) on Sept 19, 2008 6:43:57 GMT -5
pm coming your way
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Post by shattered on Sept 19, 2008 10:31:43 GMT -5
Mel,
You got engaged?? How wonderful! Congratulations!
Did you post about this? How did I miss this???
Any details?
Hugs,
Shattered
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Post by Mel (cherry) on Sept 22, 2008 7:40:49 GMT -5
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Post by shattered on Sept 22, 2008 12:44:37 GMT -5
Ah, that's the week I was in Paris -- is why I missed the post! I meant to go back and read everything from that week, but I missed your engagement post!
Wonderful, wonderful, I am so very happy for you.
Hugs, Hugs, Hugs,
shattered
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Post by flyaway on Dec 1, 2008 5:31:34 GMT -5
Wow, Ironman. Kinda sounds like a fearsome forgiveness. Remind me to never make you mad! How are you doing, sweetheart?
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Post by ironman on Dec 10, 2008 4:49:28 GMT -5
Hey Fly...
Actually I have forgiven her AND forgiven myself for letting myself get caught up in something that never should have happened. What I wrote (above) musta been a brain fart or something... I actually do wish her happiness, and I know she was doing the best she could.
Hope y'all are doing well and bein' happy!
iron man
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