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Post by redskyatnight on Sept 18, 2008 12:38:47 GMT -5
My ex has had the same gf since we split up 3 years ago. She has two kids and an ex-husband who I talk to once in a while.
I got an email from her ex-husband today saying they had split up and her kids were happy about it because they were tired of all the arguing and yelling. I still can't believe that he would argue in front of the kids. Its not good for them and his selfish tail can't control himself.
I feel strangely peaceful about it. I don't know why. Maybe it's the calm before the storm. Without a gf to occupy his time and energy, he will begin to ruminate on every wrong he has ever been dealt and that could be bad.
Maybe I'm peaceful because I still want some revenge. Don't really know and don't really care right now.
So, yeah, I guess that's it.
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daryl
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Post by daryl on Sept 18, 2008 14:45:13 GMT -5
I think that you should enjoy the feeling as long as it lasts.Sometimes justice comes in various forms and this may be some satisfaction from the universe upon you. Revenge is what you did not set out to achieve,your ex achieved it by his own hand. You just have the satisfaction of it.
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Post by kittenhart on Sept 18, 2008 19:43:52 GMT -5
Like you, I would be a little worried that he may become more of a bother to you now, since he has more time on his hands....I wouldn't feel at all guilty about taking a little satisfaction in the break up though (I think that's just human nature).
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Post by charbiedoll on Oct 18, 2008 6:28:31 GMT -5
I am in the same boat as you redsky. My ex and I split of 3pyr ago and apparently the 2 of them have ended thier relationship. I dont know why because I really only talk to him via texting regarding kids visitation. I can say that he has been trying to talk woth me and has been becoming very frustrated that I will not. He has been sitting in front of my home and apparently doing drive by's (not in his vehicle though so I wouldnt know it) almost like he is stalking me. He has been texting me and asking if I think about the good times we had etc...blah blah blah. I really do not respond to the texts but he occasionally lures me in to conversation when he starts takling about the kids. I dont usually fall for it and I think he hates the fact that this time he WILL NOT GET WHAT HE WANTS!!! Just be careful and read the warning signs if he does start coming around a little more than usual. But, I do have the same feeling as you...revenge is sweet but, at the same time.....I really done give a crap what happens to him, I just want him to stay away from me. Good luck!
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