Post by super on Sept 21, 2008 19:08:02 GMT -5
I haven't been thinking about my ex much at all lately. I finished grad school and in two days I'm leaving for a trip around the world (or at least asia).
Today my mom got an e-mail from his mom though. What is this, grade 3?
She said that they had just helped him move and came across some pictures of me, so they are sending them to my mom. Again, grade 3?
The only thing him leaving his condo can mean is he's moving into hers, they bought something together, or they're moving to the place where we (and she!) grew up. That would explain why his parents drove 8 hours to help move, or it could have been coincidence.
At first I was just shattered. I mean, I know they're together. I assumed they were living together and likely engaged or even married or pregnant. Why would he not keep the pictures? Or throw them out? Now I'm left wondering what's going on, where is he moving to, did he quit his job, etc. etc. He has to know, but maybe he's just too insensitive to care. I feel like he's trying to communicate with me in a passive-agressive way.
It seems like the height of immaturity to have his parents send things, and to my mom. I don't want whatever it is. I told her to go ahead and tell them what I'm up to because she wants to ask what he's doing, but I think I've changed my mind. I don't care about him and don't want to know. I don't even want the pictures. I've lived this long without them, I can continue on. And he doesn't need to know about me.
I'm so angry!! I don't want to even remember he exists.
Today my mom got an e-mail from his mom though. What is this, grade 3?
She said that they had just helped him move and came across some pictures of me, so they are sending them to my mom. Again, grade 3?
The only thing him leaving his condo can mean is he's moving into hers, they bought something together, or they're moving to the place where we (and she!) grew up. That would explain why his parents drove 8 hours to help move, or it could have been coincidence.
At first I was just shattered. I mean, I know they're together. I assumed they were living together and likely engaged or even married or pregnant. Why would he not keep the pictures? Or throw them out? Now I'm left wondering what's going on, where is he moving to, did he quit his job, etc. etc. He has to know, but maybe he's just too insensitive to care. I feel like he's trying to communicate with me in a passive-agressive way.
It seems like the height of immaturity to have his parents send things, and to my mom. I don't want whatever it is. I told her to go ahead and tell them what I'm up to because she wants to ask what he's doing, but I think I've changed my mind. I don't care about him and don't want to know. I don't even want the pictures. I've lived this long without them, I can continue on. And he doesn't need to know about me.
I'm so angry!! I don't want to even remember he exists.