I said if She wants to go get a Coke she can call me (I did not want to be to forward by asking her number)
Freckles, I hope your "strategy" gets you where you want to be. But, I hope you look at it from the other side sometime...handing someone a card and telling them to call you if they want to get a coke sounds like you are trying to get them to an Amway meeting.
I guess what I am trying to say is, look at it from the other side. If a woman gave you her business card, would you automatically think it was true love? (Hmm...maybe you shouldn't answer that! )
I know, you are looking for a wife. But you have to look for, and be, a friend first. Do you ever look at it from that perspective? That a woman could just be your friend?
Anyway, you know what you want, my suggestion is to take a hard look at how you are trying to get there.