Great, I'm sorry you're playing daddy to an infant, but you complain about being a dad to two teen boys every other week-end? Helllooo???
You are so obvious and transparent, it's ridiculous!! They are in your care every other week-end and it surprises you they prefer to call grandma while supposedly in your care???
My poor mom runs herself ragged to make up any possible gaps during my custodial time (voluntarily by you 5 freaking yrs ago when you left me for Trailer-Trash) and you have the kahunas to gripe on your own week-end?
I'm juggling a home, teens, job, yard, health problems, etc and you're complaining about one of our sons calling us for a ride and $ for a freaking tournament? Are you in touch w/ this reality at all??? Do you have any freaking idea how demanding being a parent to a teen (let alone, 2) is??? I don't think so. Thank God W has had a vasectomy because I'd been a nun for the last 4 yrs...
Haha...poor kid calls me from half way between our houses to get him and you didn't know where he was. Funny, when that went down here a few months ago, you called the cops, said he'd 'fled' me and didn't bother to let me know where he was. When I called the cops, they met me at your house (as per my request) and returned to my custody, but not until privately asking him what happened. He was man enough at 15 to tell them the truth rather than what you and TT were trying to make it out to be. The police report documented you and TT as liars!! No wonder you didn't call the cops (a 5th time!!!!!!). 4 out of 4 does put you in a bad light for court.
The thing that bothers me the most right now is Cam is one heck of a kid compared to you at that age (I know, I was there). Yeah, he's not perfect, but you're pushing him away. He has enough issues with TT. When I picked him up and I was defending her gently, I was looking over my shoulder to make sure it was me saying it. You are such hypocrites.
Oh, and while I'm at it, Psycho, brush up on your punctuation!!!!!!!!!!! It just frosts me when you make the same mistake every single time and I see that degree I helped you obtain just to try to use it against me in court!!!!!!!!! Dumb-Ass!!!!!!!
Oh, and that kid that I neglect sent me a text that says, 'I love you. Thank you for all that you have done for me, the things you do, the things you buy, the things you say. I know it may not seem like it, but it's true. I'm just trying to figure things out right now. On my own.' (Pretty danged good punctuation for a 16 yr old, huh?) 10/05/08 1:43 pm.
You're a 'no show' and I'm sick of paying thousands out the end to defend myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know my attorneys are paid and I know yours is NOT.
Oh yeah, vent-o-board can be a very freeing thing...
While I'm at it, I'm watching Lifetime this afternoon (before picking up our son) and they are shooting at our Orthodontist's office. I don't recall the white petunia tooth flowerbed, but all of the oak detailing was there. Makes sense I take them to a specialist because you squeak when you walk and it's cheaper. Where do you get off and how does your dentist friend explain one has diagnosed TMJ and the other has a 2nd set of adult, front teeth coming in???
I will do whatever it takes to give them what they need. I don't know how you sleep at night. Not to freaking mention Cam just had an EKG for an irregular heart-beat??? I hope they don't get any more from you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rocko - I highly doubt that her ex will grow up any time soon. He will probably be like my father, on his death bed and FINALLY apologizing for what he did to my mom and us kids!
WTF DIDN'T YOU CALL ME?!?!?!?!?! Ok, I know that we are both having a hard time lately, BUT I STILL WOULD HAVE HOPPED IN MY CAR AT 1 AM AND COME TO YOUR RESCUE... Kinda like you did for me! At least, if it were me coming to you, we both know I would get there and back ***WINK***
But isn't it soooo nice to be able to purge it out though.
Maybe he will grow up one day.
It sure does! You're sweet, Rocko. Now I look like a nut-case, but hey. Thanks for letting me vent. I was so strung out. (BTW, heard some kind of possible break through with autism, is this something that could benefit your boys since I'm sure you've heard more than me? I said a little prayer for all of ya.)
Loshyra ended up taking me to the ER this afternoon from work because my Dr threatened ambulance. (No, not w/ a nervous break-down ;D). Took over 5 hrs, but nothing serious is wrong (but stress didn't help after going to court again this morning ). Thanks everyone!
BTW, court went really well. His attorney was trying to avoid trial, but the Judge said it's been going on since Feb of 2006 and it's more than time to move on. Yay, Judge!
So, we're walking out of court and his attorney says to my attorney, 'Ya know R, I'm always willing to talk. Maybe we can try one more time' and before I knew it, out comes of my mouth, 'Oh no, we've done Mediation twice and he's not changed anything. We're not spending anymore time or money'. Then my friend says something like, 'The boys are almost grown up already'. I'm afraid of my own attorney (which is a good thing), so I don't know if I'll be in trouble even though he'd told me a while back NO more mediaion because my ex is too psycho to deal with and it's a waste of time and $.
Then I looked back and reminded her to bring her calendar next time (What kind of air-head attorney comes to court w/out a calendar???). So, we get to pay more $ thru the nose for them to have a phone conference to schedule for trial. At least life isn't boring...
I thought I told you to go to bed when you got home!!! What OH WHAT am I going to do with you?!?!
I am sooo glad that everything ended up being ok. And you know that I will be there for you no matter what time....what day....Although I gotta say... I am jealous, you got to sleep during the hospital stay.... I didn't have a comfy chair....or anything to sleep on.
BTW.......I totally agree with what you said about the dr and too bad he didn't give us any bruises ***WINK WINK***