Trial (end of February) is drawing closer and so I'm going through literally hundreds of e-mails for support. It's just dredging up so much crap.
My ex is clueless (even after reading this post) to reality. He has NO idea how screwed he is. I think he has such a distorted sense of entitlement...it wouldn't even occur to him what I've just uncovered and documented. The private eye thing is still in my control, but the most recent events are out of my hands.
I'm getting angrier and angrier as I read the crap that has gone down between us over the years. If anything can put a positive spin on a short-term memory problem, it's this...So much of what I'm reading had left my memory....Now... Thank God this crap is in wrting.
I just have to keep reminding myself that having sustained this disability is a good thing given the ex-hole I am dealing with.
Thanks, friends. You guys starred in my dream (or nightmare) that just woke me.
In preparation for trial, my attorney needed specific info from me. I realize they have many clients at a time, but when I dropped by his office to comb through my file, I was shocked that my file literally took up 2 boxes (those boxes reams of copying paper come in). This doesn't even included the tons of e-mails I have for back-up.
Thankfully, my memory seems to hold more w/ things that have major impact - negative and positive. I may feel irritated, but have to be thankful so much of my side is documented in writing via e-mail to my secure government e-mail address.