You need peace.
Here are a few observations or questions:
How will he move to US and still keep his promise to his parents?
Back by Christmas, but he was a no show
Doesn’t remember making promises (reminds me of my ex)
He is downsizing your emotions.
What particular job skills does he have? He’s working in a bakery. It is my understanding that you need skills that are not readily available in the US to get a permanent work VISA. Baking doesn’t seem like an unavailable skill.
I think the main distress you are feeling is caused by you not knowing if he will come back to the US. He may fully want and intend to come to the US,
but his intentions do NOT match his reality.13) He extremely often says one thing and does another.
14) I do not know when he is telling me the truth and when he isn't.
19) He calls me every other day, we e-mail near-daily, and every conversation features him overflowing with love and yearning for me and promising me the moon and the stars.
He is a hopeless romantic, but has no real sense of commitment.You’ve got 4 and a half months invested in this relationship. I honestly don’t see it going anywhere but toward more pain for you. Only you can decide when you have had enough.
It may help to take one or two days off to settle your thoughts and emotions. Find something to do during this time, walk around the Mall, watch movies, shoplift, something to take your thoughts off of him and onto something else, then see if any clarity surfaces.