ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Jan 1, 2008 21:28:06 GMT -5
To answer your question seriously. I have more interests than is probably healthy. I never understood the word "bored" 1. my business is my hobby and passion 2. cooking 3. swimming 4. biking 5. reading 6. research for a book 7. volunteer work 8. hope to travel to europe and asia soon 9. dance 10. modeling Lady J - What sort of things are you planning to do to feed your soul that don't involve a man?
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Post by goods on Jan 1, 2008 21:29:38 GMT -5
be happy with yourself... the rest will take care of itself
searching for someone to love never works out
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ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Jan 1, 2008 21:31:28 GMT -5
I am, this whole thread was misunderstood. I just wanted someone to kiss on new years LOL
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Post by wizer on Jan 1, 2008 21:33:45 GMT -5
I am, this whole thread was misunderstood. I just wanted someone to kiss on new years LOL Well, my ass is still available
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Post by goods on Jan 1, 2008 21:34:42 GMT -5
I am, this whole thread was misunderstood. I just wanted someone to kiss on new years LOL Well hell you should have called me... I could have made the trip.
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Post by JimB on Jan 2, 2008 16:13:36 GMT -5
To answer your question seriously. I have more interests than is probably healthy. I never understood the word "bored" 1. my business is my hobby and passion 2. cooking 3. swimming 4. biking 5. reading 6. research for a book 7. volunteer work 8. hope to travel to europe and asia soon 9. dance 10. modeling Holla. But being busy is not the same as feeding your soul. And I agree with the troll - dating is not a business proposition.
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Atl
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Post by Atl on Jan 2, 2008 16:20:23 GMT -5
Random thought here, not directed at anyone. I think it's ok to want and even feel the need for someone, but I don't think it's ok consider changing who you are to fit someone else. What I see a lot of is, mostly women, changing themselves for every man that comes along. This happens because these women never take the time to find out who they truly are before they start getting involved. I know I did......I was so young and niave. I did what ever he wanted me to do to make him happy. In the two years gone by since the breakup I know who I am and what I want out of life. I am very pleased with who I am on the inside - still working on the outside part.
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ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Jan 2, 2008 16:29:11 GMT -5
Again I am being misunderstood. I am not a super busy person. These are my interests. I believe in a balance in life, in all areas. When I say I am approaching this like I do a business plan, I mean this. I decided on some short term and longterm goals. I am a list maker. I have approached this logically and made a list of activities I want to involve myself in to hopefully meet quality people. I am not just looking to meet men either. I want to expand my social circle. I want my phone to ring more often. I need to stop hibernating. My hobbies do feed my soul actually. The volunteer work, well ya, anyone who volunteers knows you get far more back than what you put out. To answer your question seriously. I have more interests than is probably healthy. I never understood the word "bored" 1. my business is my hobby and passion 2. cooking 3. swimming 4. biking 5. reading 6. research for a book 7. volunteer work 8. hope to travel to europe and asia soon 9. dance 10. modeling Holla. But being busy is not the same as feeding your soul. And I agree with the troll - dating is not a business proposition.
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warewa
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Post by warewa on Jan 3, 2008 9:40:39 GMT -5
Well I'm writing a book, been to Europe many times, love to dance, and have a huge library.
Haven't cooked much though. Need to work on that one!!
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Post by lqdKaos on Jan 3, 2008 16:12:34 GMT -5
Where do I fill out the application, ladyJ?
Would you consider a software engineer / whitewater raft guide?
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ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Jan 3, 2008 16:15:50 GMT -5
Mmmmmmmm dont tempt me and I know you are not single! Where do I fill out the application, ladyJ? Would you consider a software engineer / whitewater raft guide?
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