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Post by finding on Feb 4, 2008 16:20:58 GMT -5
Ok, I've gone from the famine to the feast, I'm not sure which is worse. Ugh.
#1. Went on a couple of dates and called and wanted to set something else up, I told him when I would be free, but he never called back. Jerk is all I've got to say there. Don't call to set something up if you aren't going to follow through.
#2. I've hit it off really well with this one. Personalities work well with each other and there is a major attraction. Its the first time in quite a while I've felt this way about another person. The only problem , and it is a doosey, is that he likes to "share". He is totally respectful of my stance on that, which is even more frustrating.
#3. A really nice guy, but the attraction isn't that strong. He's attractive and we have a lot in common, but something is missing. He said I'm hot and wants to get to know me better.
#4. Is pissed because I wouldn't bring him back home and hasn't called back. Skeezer. I'm not going there on a first date, he knew that going in, but didn't want to take no for an answer.
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Post by JC on Feb 4, 2008 16:22:55 GMT -5
he likes to share? i dont get it
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Post by finding on Feb 4, 2008 16:24:23 GMT -5
he likes to share? i dont get it His SO with others.  |
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Post by rocko on Feb 4, 2008 16:34:39 GMT -5
Ok, I've gone from the famine to the feast, I'm not sure which is worse. Ugh. # 1. Went on a couple of dates and called and wanted to set something else up, I told him when I would be free, but he never called back. Jerk is all I've got to say there. Don't call to set something up if you aren't going to follow through.#2. I've hit it off really well with this one. Personalities work well with each other and there is a major attraction. Its the first time in quite a while I've felt this way about another person. The only problem , and it is a doosey, is that he likes to "share". He is totally respectful of my stance on that, which is even more frustrating. If you don't "share" then this guy isn't an option.#3. A really nice guy, but the attraction isn't that strong. He's attractive and we have a lot in common, but something is missing. He said I'm hot and wants to get to know me better. I think this guy may be worth a few dates to see if more comes of your *connection*, but none of these guys sound like THE ONE and they don't have to be...there are more guys out there.#4. Is pissed because I wouldn't bring him back home and hasn't called back. Skeezer. I'm not going there on a first date, he knew that going in, but didn't want to take no for an answer. |
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Post by JC on Feb 4, 2008 16:49:54 GMT -5
he likes to share? i dont get it His SO with others. OHHHHH i get it. lol. |
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Post by finding on Feb 4, 2008 16:51:08 GMT -5
Ok, I've gone from the famine to the feast, I'm not sure which is worse. Ugh. # 1. Went on a couple of dates and called and wanted to set something else up, I told him when I would be free, but he never called back. Jerk is all I've got to say there. Don't call to set something up if you aren't going to follow through.#2. I've hit it off really well with this one. Personalities work well with each other and there is a major attraction. Its the first time in quite a while I've felt this way about another person. The only problem , and it is a doosey, is that he likes to "share". He is totally respectful of my stance on that, which is even more frustrating. If you don't "share" then this guy isn't an option.#3. A really nice guy, but the attraction isn't that strong. He's attractive and we have a lot in common, but something is missing. He said I'm hot and wants to get to know me better. I think this guy may be worth a few dates to see if more comes of your *connection*, but none of these guys sound like THE ONE and they don't have to be...there are more guys out there.#4. Is pissed because I wouldn't bring him back home and hasn't called back. Skeezer. I'm not going there on a first date, he knew that going in, but didn't want to take no for an answer. I know, I know. That is what my gut and my head are saying. HE is the one I need to give a chance. Maybe I'm over thinking things, but what if the attraction doesn't get stronger? Maybe it's because there is a true shot at something that I'm blocking it. Things were going well with #2 until I found out this information. Why do the ones I have a real attraction to have to have huge red flags or major baggage? |
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Post by rocko on Feb 4, 2008 17:03:15 GMT -5
I have found that men that aren't really someone I can date are more appealing bc there is no real chance there/no threat.
I wouldn't give #3 more than a few dates though. No point in wasting time if *it* just isn't there.
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Post by murdock on Feb 4, 2008 17:07:03 GMT -5
#1 Give him the benefit of the doubt, ONCE.
#2 Swinger. Next.
#3 Give it some time, you might find something really attractive about him.
#4 Potential roofie date rapist... stay AWAY!!!
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Post by finding on Feb 4, 2008 17:11:55 GMT -5
See, what pisses me off with #2 is I could see it going somewhere until I found this out. Totally respectful, steady job, great personality, we just clicked. The first time in a long time that has happened. He had to go and ruin it with this.
Why can't I click with a normal guy?
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Post by murdock on Feb 4, 2008 17:17:06 GMT -5
No one is normal... it is a matter of what you are willing to tollerate. At least #2 was honest.
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Post by finding on Feb 4, 2008 17:34:28 GMT -5
No one is normal... it is a matter of what you are willing to tollerate. At least #2 was honest. He was honest, and I totally appreciate that before things went to far and I really started to like him. He respects my stance and didn't push the issue. |
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Post by murdock on Feb 4, 2008 17:45:47 GMT -5
No one is normal... it is a matter of what you are willing to tollerate. At least #2 was honest. He was honest, and I totally appreciate that before things went to far and I really started to like him. He respects my stance and didn't push the issue. I think his (#2) charisma is part of his lifestyle choice. People would have to easily connect with people to be able to actively participate in that life style choice. I think #3 is your best bet... at least he isn't a flake, swinger or rapist.... I think you could survive boring and possibly gain a friendship, if nothing more. |
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Post by hoodieprincess on Feb 4, 2008 18:42:21 GMT -5
Well, #3 at least sounds like he's worth spending the time on trying another date or two. Sometimes the "missing" can be found. And, if it doesn't after another date or two, I wouldn't waste any more time on it on the romantic side but you might gain a friend. As you learned from the lack of options before, it's always bound to turn around again. Good luck!
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Post by finding on Feb 4, 2008 19:24:34 GMT -5
I just heard from #3, he wants to get together sometime this weekend. I think I will give it a shot, wrangler butts are kinda cute.  |
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Post by rocko on Feb 5, 2008 8:41:39 GMT -5
but where the hell do they put their *package* in those things?
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