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Post by goods on Feb 3, 2008 15:22:07 GMT -5
pffffff...hahaha...your soooooooooooooooooooooooo effing hilarious. what else jokes do you have? Whoops I read that as you saying could YOU juggle... So of course I would want to watch. The answer.. no I can not juggle... or at least I have never tried. |
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Post by Saucy on Feb 3, 2008 15:23:56 GMT -5
i can't juggle even if my life depended on it.
dangit.
smoke break.
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Post by rocko on Feb 4, 2008 13:19:44 GMT -5
Keep putting yourself out there meeting new people. You will meet someone that you have a connection with. If your luck is like mine you will meet two at the same time and have to make choice.
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Post by freckles on Feb 4, 2008 13:22:26 GMT -5
I wish the Lady I like would like me too  |
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Post by cdngurl on Feb 4, 2008 13:46:36 GMT -5
I think all of you are right.  I know I should be getting out, dating. It's not that feelings for my STBXW are holding me back. I just find dating just to be dating can be tedious. Some connections can bridge thousands of miles, yet they can never be a substitute for a warm body laying next to me. goods, I can really relate. It took tons of dating, with no connection, to realize that I didn't want to date - and that I'd rather spend the time with friends or alone. For me, it was time wasted (well - not really - met some nice people). Funny enough, when I stopped wanting it was when I found it... and it happened to be a relationship that started thousands of miles apart.  It has been known to work... just sayin. ps - the opinions expressed in the preceding post are those of the CDNgurl, and do not necessarily reflect those of the general hugthat group.  |
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Post by goods on Feb 4, 2008 13:49:53 GMT -5
thanks cdn.. glad to hear it. |
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Post by wizer on Feb 6, 2008 16:57:34 GMT -5
I feel a connection with a woman who lives almost 500 miles away that is stronger than the one I feel with my GF who I see almost every day. How messed up is that?
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Post by Saucy on Feb 6, 2008 17:03:09 GMT -5
You only live life once.
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Post by goods on Feb 6, 2008 17:04:17 GMT -5
Maybe I should change this to:
Connections without Relationships
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Post by lumpy on Feb 6, 2008 17:11:51 GMT -5
 You don't want none! You don't want none!
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Post by loshyra on Feb 6, 2008 17:20:25 GMT -5
Hey goods....
I had this problem a lot when I was dating. I found that as soon as I stopped looking is when I found the relationship that I wanted. Don't give up... I am sure that there is someone just waiting to meet someone like you ;D
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Post by murdock on Feb 6, 2008 18:06:08 GMT -5
hey goods...
here are my thoughts on your lil situation. Friends are friends, we are connected to because they forgive us for our flaws and they love us in spite of them. We can be ourselves, without being scared that they are judgin us. You just came out of a long relationship. You will forever be bonded to your STBXW, even if you don't want to be. That connection, no matter how lost, was real.
I think you are being really hard on yourself because you aren't feeling a connection with the women you are dating. Just remember, a bond is something that is built over time.... and it becomes stronger and stronger the more time you dedicate to it. To hold these "new" women in your life to the same standard that you hold your friends and someone you married is setting the bar a little hIGH.
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Post by goods on Feb 6, 2008 18:19:03 GMT -5
Thanks Losh and Murdock... I am not really interested or more accurately looking for a long term connection/relationship BUT dating just to be dating... bah. I guess I'm spoiled with the "connection" (no matter how fake it was) I had with my HOPEFULLY STBXW.... Perhaps that is why when I feel a connection with someone... no matter how much physical distance is actually between us... I want to grab hold of it and more importantly her. |
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Post by lumpy on Feb 6, 2008 18:23:32 GMT -5
Thanks Losh and Murdock... I am not really interested or more accurately looking for a long term connection/relationship BUT dating just to be dating... bah. I guess I'm spoiled with the "connection" (no matter how fake it was) I had with my HOPEFULLY STBXW.... Perhaps that is why when I feel a connection with someone... no matter how much physical distance is actually between us... I want to grab hold of it and more importantly her. So pursue the long-distance thingie. What's the worst thing that can happen. |
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Post by goods on Feb 6, 2008 18:28:26 GMT -5
Thanks Losh and Murdock... I am not really interested or more accurately looking for a long term connection/relationship BUT dating just to be dating... bah. I guess I'm spoiled with the "connection" (no matter how fake it was) I had with my HOPEFULLY STBXW.... Perhaps that is why when I feel a connection with someone... no matter how much physical distance is actually between us... I want to grab hold of it and more importantly her. So pursue the long-distance thingie. What's the worst thing that can happen. I'll let you know. |
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It has been known to work... just sayin.
