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Post by finding on Dec 30, 2007 23:21:32 GMT -5
I got an email from the ex's OW today. She went dark shortly after he died. It has been months since I have heard anything from her. Why now?
Her email said something to the effect of sorry that she hasn't contacted me and that she made some stupid decisions in the last few months. Why even bother with anything at all?
Please notice this isn't in the vent board. I've come that far. It didn't upset me, but rather confused me.
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JC
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Post by JC on Dec 31, 2007 10:29:08 GMT -5
sometimes it takes people time to understand the magnitude of their actions. she could be feeling really guilty, and to make herself feel better, she apologizes to you, not even thinking aobut how that might affect you.. selfish if you ask me.
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AMG
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Post by AMG on Dec 31, 2007 13:24:44 GMT -5
Weird... I got an email from ex's OW today... must be the holidays
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Post by lostteacher on Dec 31, 2007 17:35:42 GMT -5
my email came from my ex just before christmas, on what would have been an anniversary of ours. i think it's the holidays, it just makes everyone think. don't let it bother you too much girl. you are doing great. LT
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ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Dec 31, 2007 17:48:06 GMT -5
Yes I guess we do a lot more reflecting at this time of the year. I have been reflecting on many old relationships these days. Reflecting, understanding and hoping to not repeat patterns. Holidays makes the heart yearn. I won't lie, I can even miss numbnuts at times.
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