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Jan 2, 2008 14:54:31 GMT -5
Post by finding on Jan 2, 2008 14:54:31 GMT -5
I am freaking out about the date tonight. I know everything will be casual, a light dinner and a beer before his pool tourney tonight, but I'm sick to my stomach.
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Jan 2, 2008 15:05:59 GMT -5
Post by goods on Jan 2, 2008 15:05:59 GMT -5
Let him try to impress YOU.
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Jan 2, 2008 15:27:48 GMT -5
Post by finding on Jan 2, 2008 15:27:48 GMT -5
Let him try to impress YOU. How do I do that?
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Jan 2, 2008 15:32:19 GMT -5
Post by goods on Jan 2, 2008 15:32:19 GMT -5
realize that YOU do not need to prove yourself to anyone that you know the type of person you are interested in ask him VERY SUPERFICIAL questions about his family, work, friends.... if you like his responses, see him again, dig a little deeper... if not no big deal, there are plenty of us single guys out here in the wilderness to keep you company little red riding hood
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Jan 2, 2008 15:34:04 GMT -5
Post by ladyj on Jan 2, 2008 15:34:04 GMT -5
Confidence........step outside of this situation in your mind. Become less attached to it.
And put your fingers to each temple and repeat this...
"Ummmmmmm ummmmmmmm"
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Jan 2, 2008 15:37:24 GMT -5
Post by Sass on Jan 2, 2008 15:37:24 GMT -5
Just relax! You should know within the first fifteen minutes or so whether or not you want to see him again. I wouldn't try to be anybody other than you are or say anything that it isn't you. You will do fine, and if this one doesn't work out try another. Now get on that horse and go get 'em!
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Jan 2, 2008 15:47:00 GMT -5
Post by finding on Jan 2, 2008 15:47:00 GMT -5
This is the first date I have been on in just over two years. The last couple of relationships have been friends that evolved into something else.
I know it is time to start getting out there and living again, but damn it, my stomach is in knots.
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Jan 2, 2008 15:50:37 GMT -5
Post by Sass on Jan 2, 2008 15:50:37 GMT -5
This is the first date I have been on in just over two years. The last couple of relationships have been friends that evolved into something else. I know it is time to start getting out there and living again, but damn it, my stomach is in knots. To tell the truth, mine would be too! I was just trying to give you a pep talk to help out! Getting out there can be a bowl of mixed emotions and happenings. You need to find a man who isn't a friend, because if it doesn't work out, then the friendship ends sometimes. Start fresh......it seems that you are doing that and that is the first step.
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Jan 2, 2008 19:31:26 GMT -5
Post by finding on Jan 2, 2008 19:31:26 GMT -5
Ack, I talked to him a while ago. Plans are a go for tonight. We are meeting up later after his pool tournament. I am freaking here people.
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Jan 2, 2008 19:33:27 GMT -5
Post by lumpy on Jan 2, 2008 19:33:27 GMT -5
It's just a beer and pool. Take a deep breath and have fun.
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Jan 2, 2008 19:35:41 GMT -5
Post by ladyj on Jan 2, 2008 19:35:41 GMT -5
Take two swigs of vodka before you leave the house, works for me. Well when I use to drink... Ack, I talked to him a while ago. Plans are a go for tonight. We are meeting up later after his pool tournament. I am freaking here people.
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Jan 2, 2008 19:37:35 GMT -5
Post by finding on Jan 2, 2008 19:37:35 GMT -5
Take two swigs of vodka before you leave the house, works for me. Well when I use to drink... Ack, I talked to him a while ago. Plans are a go for tonight. We are meeting up later after his pool tournament. I am freaking here people. No vodka, I do have a few Molsens in the fridge though. Will that work?
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Jan 2, 2008 19:39:48 GMT -5
Post by ladyj on Jan 2, 2008 19:39:48 GMT -5
Yes.......but Im probably giving bad advice............ Take two swigs of vodka before you leave the house, works for me. Well when I use to drink... No vodka, I do have a few Molsens in the fridge though. Will that work?
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Jan 2, 2008 23:42:29 GMT -5
Post by finding on Jan 2, 2008 23:42:29 GMT -5
He's picking me up in a few minutes. Ack.
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Jan 2, 2008 23:44:10 GMT -5
Post by J (Hot Mess) on Jan 2, 2008 23:44:10 GMT -5
Have a drink to take the edge off. Let us know how it goes immediately!!
Good Luck.
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