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Post by jules on Jan 23, 2008 15:45:27 GMT -5
You don't understand the logic of no contact for self-preservation?
This is also the man who hurt me worse than I could even begin to describe, who refused to even consider working to save our marriage, and who later moved out of state to start a brand new life, leaving me to clean up the entire mess and handle all of the logistics. Trust me, I am not the "bad guy" here. I'm just trying to get through this whole thing with my dignity intact.
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Post by wizer on Jan 23, 2008 15:51:28 GMT -5
I am in the midst of a horrible divorce. Recently we started some sporadic communication, in an attempt to get our kids back on track, but the conversations are incredibly stressful and usually end in a screaming match.
If it wasn't for the kids, and the skyrocketing legal costs due to the lawyers having to handle every little thing, I wouldn't speak to the woman at all.
I understand.
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Post by RO on Jan 23, 2008 15:52:52 GMT -5
Wrong assumption. Very wrong. Well, if you're not afraid to talk to him, then why not just call him? I mean, this is the man who used to be your husband, who you once loved and chose to be with for the rest of your life, through good times and bad, and now you can't even discuss a simple thing like an insurance renewal? I guess I just dont' understand your logic. Blazin- Leave JULES alone and back the fuck off! She doesn't need your cruel comments when she is going through something which one would have to be human which you continue to prove that you are NOT to understand. Back off!
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 23, 2008 15:54:04 GMT -5
You don't understand the logic of no contact for self-preservation? This is also the man who hurt me worse than I could even begin to describe, who refused to even consider working to save our marriage, and who later moved out of state to start a brand new life, leaving me to clean up the entire mess and handle all of the logistics. Trust me, I am not the "bad guy" here. I'm just trying to get through this whole thing with my dignity intact. I didn't call you the bad guy. And I understand the pain of divorce, quite well. But you're the one who divorced him creating the mess that you are left to clean up. So I have a lot of trouble sympathizing with you.
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Post by wizer on Jan 23, 2008 15:56:05 GMT -5
I didn't call you the bad guy. And I understand the pain of divorce, quite well. But you're the one who divorced him creating the mess that you are left to clean up. So I have a lot of trouble sympathizing with you. And people say I am a troll...Blazin what are you trying to accomplish here? Just curious.
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Post by jules on Jan 23, 2008 16:03:25 GMT -5
You don't understand the logic of no contact for self-preservation? This is also the man who hurt me worse than I could even begin to describe, who refused to even consider working to save our marriage, and who later moved out of state to start a brand new life, leaving me to clean up the entire mess and handle all of the logistics. Trust me, I am not the "bad guy" here. I'm just trying to get through this whole thing with my dignity intact. I didn't call you the bad guy. And I understand the pain of divorce, quite well. But you're the one who divorced him creating the mess that you are left to clean up. So I have a lot of trouble sympathizing with you. For your information, he essentially forced me to file. He couldn't do so himself because he couldn't afford a lawyer. He made my life a living hell until I agreed to file, in ways I'm not even going to begin to go into on a message board. But don't worry, I do not need nor want your sympathy.
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Post by Saucy on Jan 23, 2008 16:05:17 GMT -5
so what are you going to do jules? pay it or let it ride?
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 23, 2008 16:11:46 GMT -5
For your information, he essentially forced me to file. He couldn't do so himself because he couldn't afford a lawyer. He made my life a living hell until I agreed to file, in ways I'm not even going to begin to go into on a message board. I was not aware of that. I was under the impression that you divorced him because he was leeching off you and wouldnt' make the effort to work.
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Post by Saucy on Jan 23, 2008 16:13:21 GMT -5
i wouldnt pay for the insurance. I'd be too bitter to even care.
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Post by jules on Jan 23, 2008 16:16:44 GMT -5
For your information, he essentially forced me to file. He couldn't do so himself because he couldn't afford a lawyer. He made my life a living hell until I agreed to file, in ways I'm not even going to begin to go into on a message board. I was not aware of that. I was under the impression that you divorced him because he was leeching off you and wouldnt' make the effort to work. Well you're wrong. Saucy, I'm going to pay. Hopefully I can set up a month-to-month payment plan with my insurance company. It's just money. And I can't risk being liable if he were to get into an accident uninsured.
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Post by wizer on Jan 23, 2008 16:18:50 GMT -5
Saucy, I'm going to pay. Hopefully I can set up a month-to-month payment plan with my insurance company. It's just money. And I can't risk being liable if he were to get into an accident uninsured. You know who could answer this question for you better than probably any lawyer could? Magalucia. Don't ask me how I know, but I know. Why don't you pm her. She should be back online soon.
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 23, 2008 16:22:47 GMT -5
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Post by wizer on Jan 23, 2008 16:45:04 GMT -5
What's the "take home message" here, blazin? I will give you multiple choice: A) Assume you are right and everyone who disagrees with you is wrong. B) Realize that you are not always right. C) If a subject is debatable then it should be debated. D) Take every opportunity to jump all over a person who is obviously hurting, as long as they get the point you are trying to drive into their head. E) A and C but not B. F) All of the above. Use a number 2 pencil only and write only within the circles on the computer generated answer sheet. Use a separate sheet of paper if necessary. No calculators allowed!
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 23, 2008 16:51:40 GMT -5
Wizer, go fuck yourself you sack of shit.
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Post by wizer on Jan 23, 2008 16:53:53 GMT -5
Wizer, go fuck yourself you sack of shit. That wasn't one of the choices.
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