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Post by RO on Mar 6, 2008 11:30:42 GMT -5
J- you can only take what you know now and move forward. Stop looking back. You have a wonderful life ahead... I know you do.
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Post by jules on Mar 6, 2008 11:38:23 GMT -5
Oh hush. I'm not that delusional to think that reading a stupid article would have had any impact on the fall out. And I know that hindsight is 20/20. Blah blah blah. Indulge my twisted sense of humor.
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Post by freckles on Mar 6, 2008 14:01:23 GMT -5
I have to comment on this because I have been through so much in my marriage. Both myself and my husband have lied about everything there is to lie about in a relationship. I lied about how much money I spent all the time as long as it wasn't something I would be caught red handed for. My husband would lie about going to the bar with his buddies. We have both cheated and lied to each other about that. We were both extremely impulsive and when we got married for some reason we thought that we needed to become other people. After 10 years of this our relationship was shattered. We hated eachother. I didn't think we were ever goning to make it back. One night we sat together and both broke down about EVERYTHING, from the smallest lie to the biggest deception. We hit bottom and now I don't have to hide who I am from him and he doesn't hide who he is from me. If I think it could hurt his feelings, I make it a point to tell him (like when I flirt uncontrollably with goods in here, I always tell him). If I really don't want to hear about him going out partying with all the guys on the boat because it will make me gealous, I don't ask. Accepting who we are has allowed us to really trust one another. I am glad I found out you are Married I was wanting to Marry you myself (Also I like some other Ladys here too)
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Post by murdock on Mar 6, 2008 14:20:11 GMT -5
I have to comment on this because I have been through so much in my marriage. Both myself and my husband have lied about everything there is to lie about in a relationship. I lied about how much money I spent all the time as long as it wasn't something I would be caught red handed for. My husband would lie about going to the bar with his buddies. We have both cheated and lied to each other about that. We were both extremely impulsive and when we got married for some reason we thought that we needed to become other people. After 10 years of this our relationship was shattered. We hated eachother. I didn't think we were ever goning to make it back. One night we sat together and both broke down about EVERYTHING, from the smallest lie to the biggest deception. We hit bottom and now I don't have to hide who I am from him and he doesn't hide who he is from me. If I think it could hurt his feelings, I make it a point to tell him (like when I flirt uncontrollably with goods in here, I always tell him). If I really don't want to hear about him going out partying with all the guys on the boat because it will make me gealous, I don't ask. Accepting who we are has allowed us to really trust one another. I am glad I found out you are Married I was wanting to Marry you myself (Also I like some other Ladys here too) ooooh.... warm and fuzzy moment
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Post by freckles on Mar 6, 2008 14:27:57 GMT -5
I am glad I found out you are Married I was wanting to Marry you myself (Also I like some other Ladys here too) ooooh.... warm and fuzzy moment
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