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Post by freckles on Mar 3, 2008 10:09:20 GMT -5
I was over at Plenty of Fish seeing all thouse Womens Photos When I relised They are all of them Looking for Me ! So I have been seeing them *Virtual Flowers* and my Photo and the Same message To those that I like I have sent 10 or 15 so far I will just keep doing that Until 1 of them wakes up enough to see it is *Me* that they are looking for Women I am Your Man But I only want 1 Woman to Marry After that, you are just too late
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Post by wizer on Mar 3, 2008 10:35:00 GMT -5
Don't sent them the "same message". My GF keeps her profile active on POF...even though we have been together 8 months now. It's weird, I know, but she likes when the guys tell her how hot she is...anyway, we read the messages together and laugh at some of them. The ones she likes are when the guy obviously read her profile and comments on something in there. The ones that are sending the same letter to everyone are just IGNORED. If you are going to go to the trouble of sending messages, then find something in their profile and comment on it. Then they know you took the time to read it and you care about THEM.
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Post by freckles on Mar 3, 2008 10:40:44 GMT -5
I have been sending: Hi I saw your Photo and thought I would say Hi I decided to see if you would like to go get a Hamburger ? My Fingers are crossed that you email me back. From Me <- I put my name here
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Post by rocko on Mar 3, 2008 10:58:41 GMT -5
Steve makes a very valid point, Freck. A woman likes to know you took the time to read her profile. Take the time to read and say. Wow! I like dogs, too. or I see you like to read books. I love to read and I sell books, too. Anything to let them know you actually read it.
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Post by cdngurl on Mar 3, 2008 11:14:19 GMT -5
100% honest opinion Freck? When I was doing the online thing, if someone sent that to me, I would delete it right away. It was a huge turn off when all someone could say is "you are hot" or "I like your picture". Much better is "I read your profile, and I really liked what you had to say. I like "X" too, and would like to get to know you" Just my 2 cents..
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Post by freckles on Mar 3, 2008 13:04:23 GMT -5
Do you know that most of them put 1 line in thier Profile ?
I could say I like thier Profile I guess
But, its just 1 line on most of them
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Post by goods on Mar 3, 2008 13:04:30 GMT -5
"X"="sex"?
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Post by cdngurl on Mar 3, 2008 13:55:21 GMT -5
"X"="sex"? k- that was clever. Made me laugh. ;D I've never been on plenty of fish -- on the site I used, everyone had at least something to say about themselves. But yes - "I like your profile" just sounds better...
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Post by wizer on Mar 3, 2008 13:57:02 GMT -5
Do you know that most of them put 1 line in thier Profile ? I could say I like thier Profile I guess But, its just 1 line on most of them Any woman that has a 1 line profile is not serious about meeting anyone, in my opinion.
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Post by rocko on Mar 3, 2008 13:58:41 GMT -5
I would say MOST woman (yes, broad brush here) who get a pm that looks like it is one he is sending to several woman (not personalized at all), will delete it.
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Post by freckles on Mar 3, 2008 14:01:08 GMT -5
Then what do I put ?
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Post by rocko on Mar 3, 2008 14:18:07 GMT -5
Read the profile and write that one person a personal message.
She writes in her profile.
I am a fun girl who likes to play soccer and walk the dogs. blah blah blah....pretend there is a paragraph here.....
You can send her a nice message that says....
Hey I saw that you love to play soccer, I haven't played, but I love to watch the games on TV. blah blah blah
See how I took something from what the girl said and related to it rather than just saying something just about looks. Woman like to hear they are pretty, but they also like to know you aren't just some pervy just lookin' at pics, too.
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Post by freckles on Mar 3, 2008 14:20:19 GMT -5
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Post by rocko on Mar 3, 2008 14:22:22 GMT -5
if you find someone you are really interested in you can PM me part of their profile and I will help you find ideas on what to say and then you can write it yourself.
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Post by freckles on Mar 3, 2008 14:28:20 GMT -5
OK
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