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Post by freckles on Mar 5, 2008 22:17:35 GMT -5
I really think that monogamy is an entirely impossible reality. Although, the usual scenarios are one husband and a bunch of wives. I think having a network of women all sharing the same common goal is a positiive situation. They can lean on one another, get advice, help with the kids. I think the husband is in the most difficult position having to make each of the wives feel special, having to support everyone financially, being a father to multiple children with numerous mothers. I think all the Women Work and pay the Husband all their Money
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Post by jules on Mar 5, 2008 22:18:50 GMT -5
I think having a network of women all sharing the same common goal is a positiive situation. They can lean on one another, get advice, help with the kids. Come on. I'm sure everyone has seen how "well" women who are grouped together not by choice really get along. It would be a ticking time bomb. I think the husband is in the most difficult position having to make each of the wives feel special, having to support everyone financially, being a father to multiple children with numerous mothers. Why would this automatically be solely the husband's responsibility?
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Post by murdock on Mar 5, 2008 22:22:57 GMT -5
Jules:
From what I have seen and read usually the wives know the women that are joing the family and don't have a problem with it. Typically, this is a cult setting and the women have been friends since birth.
I totally agree that it shouldn't be the husbands sole responsibility to make all the money.
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Post by murdock on Mar 5, 2008 22:24:45 GMT -5
I think all the Women Work and pay the Husband all their Money Yes, but this is not polygamy... this is a "Pimp and Hoe" relationship.
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Post by jules on Mar 5, 2008 22:25:19 GMT -5
Ah, I was thinking more theoretically and in general. Not with the cult mindset in consideration. Sorry.
Women can be brainwashed to get along, huh? Even when sharing one man? Amazing.
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Post by murdock on Mar 5, 2008 22:29:42 GMT -5
Ah, I was thinking more theoretically and in general. Not with the cult mindset in consideration. Sorry. Women can be brainwashed to get along, huh? Even when sharing one man? Amazing. Sorry babe, I see where you were comming from with the hypothetical. That is the scarriest thing about the polygamists, they find nothing wrong with sharing one man and are happy to do it. The worst part is how they get the young girls to have sex with the old men.... they basically marry them against their will by telling them "this is what god intended for you"... then they must consecrate the marriage by having sex. I don't know about you, but isn't this rape?
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Post by jules on Mar 5, 2008 22:32:39 GMT -5
Since I would consider anyone who is brainwashed as mentally incapacitated... I'd think so.
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Post by murdock on Mar 5, 2008 22:38:48 GMT -5
This is how the Utah girl, Elizabeth Smart, was kidnapped from her home and held by her captors but didn't leave. She was Mormon, Everything that psychopath told her was practiced by her family. The Polygamists are technically Mormons, they share all the same beliefs, except polygamy. There was a time when all Mormons were practicing Polygamists and then the government steped in and took millions of dollars from them and made them denounce polygamy. The remaining Polygamists believe they are living the "Principal" and that they are truly the ones going to heaven.
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Post by goods on Mar 5, 2008 23:24:59 GMT -5
I think I should be the judge of this.... OK this weekend at the LAX Holiday Inn it is a straight/bi/lesbo off between Murdock and Saucy and I will be officiating, between Murdock and Saucy. UMMMM I'LL BE RIGHT BACK!
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Post by Saucy on Mar 5, 2008 23:32:12 GMT -5
hahha can you handle two?
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Post by goods on Mar 5, 2008 23:33:07 GMT -5
well I would be willing to try....
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Post by Saucy on Mar 5, 2008 23:44:01 GMT -5
there is no try! go big or go home
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Post by Saucy on Mar 5, 2008 23:44:19 GMT -5
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Post by goods on Mar 5, 2008 23:45:12 GMT -5
Well thanks to my Swedish Penis Pump I will go BIG! Hang on Babe it's going to be a rough ride!!
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Post by lumpy on Mar 6, 2008 0:21:50 GMT -5
And how pray tell would a man in that situation be a victim? By my reckoning, it's damn near impossible to keep one woman happy let alone two or three. The nagging alone would kill me.
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