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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 19:41:07 GMT -5
Finding, you had said that you thought you were being monitored by someone else, so maybe it isnt this ODG (one date guy). Maybe you can get EG or NG to give him a call and scare him off.
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Post by newts on Mar 16, 2008 19:44:11 GMT -5
Wow, how scary Finding! So this behaviour is the result of 1 date? How do people get so obsessed with people in such a short time? I would really love to understand the dynamics of this?
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Post by finding on Mar 16, 2008 19:47:45 GMT -5
Finding, you had said that you thought you were being monitored by someone else, so maybe it isnt this ODG (one date guy). Maybe you can get EG or NG to give him a call and scare him off. I haven't told EG any of this, I'm trying to keep that drama free. NG is the one coming over to watch a movie and keep an eye on things.
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 20:12:01 GMT -5
Wasn't today breakfast with NG? I guess it went well since it's movie time..
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Post by Jaded on Mar 16, 2008 20:58:15 GMT -5
I went out with this guy weeks ago on one lousy lunch date and he won't get the picture. I've told him there will not be a second date, I don't want to be friends and that I am seeing someone else. Nothing will get him to get the picture. I've been firm and blunt, but it doesn't help. I don't respond, but he continues to call and IM me. There was even one night I saw a strange truck sitting out front. Granted, I don't know if it was him or not, but this guy is starting to freak me out. This happened to me once...only i didn't date the guy. My ex husband befriended this strange guy and when my ex went to work i'd catch him sitting in his truck outside of my house, staring. My ex confronted him and told him it better not happen again and he ended the friendship, however, the guy still would come around asking to speak to my ex during times he knew he wasn't home. Three weeks later we didn't see or hear from him. Found out he was in jail. Never found out why. But have a good hunch.
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 21:43:37 GMT -5
Maybe your exhusband had a homosexual relationship with the dude and never told you about it?
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Post by Jaded on Mar 16, 2008 22:07:47 GMT -5
LOL no. My ex is one man i'd bet a lot of money on being 100%straight. This man in question had an attachment to me and it scared the bejeezus outta me.
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 22:31:25 GMT -5
He stared at you from his car in the street, while you were home? How could he see more than the top of your head?
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Post by Jaded on Mar 16, 2008 22:34:27 GMT -5
Okay you are a funny guy.
Not!
I'm five foot tall idoc.
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 22:38:15 GMT -5
I am picturing this poor dude with the binoculars, leaning out his car window, hoping to get a glimpse of you..and every now and then he sees the top 3 inches of your hair bobbing around the room. He leans out of the car more, to try to get a better angle...then he falls out his car window and is hanging there like a goof ball.
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Post by Jaded on Mar 16, 2008 22:40:03 GMT -5
Yeah. I am sure you felt pretty stupid at that point.
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 22:41:02 GMT -5
Yeah. I am sure you felt pretty stupid at that point. Well it hurt when my head smashed against my door panel and the binoculars gouged out my eyeballs. Can you get some damn heels or something?
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Post by finding on Mar 17, 2008 2:56:00 GMT -5
Well, my suspicions have been confirmed. When NG showed up a truck matching the description of the truck I have seen out front on several occasions was parked across the street. The person inside matched stalker guy's description. He saw the truck two more times over the course of the evening and so did the pizza delivery guy.
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Post by newts on Mar 17, 2008 5:02:23 GMT -5
Gwad,
Have you reported this to the police yet? What a freak!
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Post by hoodieprincess on Mar 17, 2008 9:27:54 GMT -5
It's to the point now where I would call the police for sure.
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