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Sadness
Mar 6, 2008 23:03:13 GMT -5
Post by kittenhart on Mar 6, 2008 23:03:13 GMT -5
J, Hope you are out of your sad funk. Saw that you edited this thread...I really hope things are getting better for you. I don't have any advice...just wanted to check in and see if you were feeling better. You were always so supportive of me at OJAR and I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate it....I know things seem unfairly hard sometimes and there really isn't much one can do but push through it,
K
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Sadness
Mar 7, 2008 10:44:21 GMT -5
Post by J (Hot Mess) on Mar 7, 2008 10:44:21 GMT -5
I didnt edit the thread...I guess PQ did.
Thanks KHart.....I cant say I am any better but thanks for that.
Everything has fallen apart for me and I am at an all time low right now. I will be making some huge changes in the next several weeks, changes I did not want to have to make but I have no choice in the matter. I have to face my limitations and failures head on and realize that I cannot have a life that I wanted but rather one that is limited by my liabiliities. Its a hard pill to swallow. I dont know what I did to deserve it.
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Sadness
Mar 7, 2008 10:50:53 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Mar 7, 2008 10:50:53 GMT -5
I will Help you
PM me if you need Ideas
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Sadness
Mar 7, 2008 10:51:40 GMT -5
Post by RO on Mar 7, 2008 10:51:40 GMT -5
j-
i am here if you want to listen to me discuss absolutely nothing. you got my # shoot me a call. i promise to be lucid and make you laugh...
hugs to you. remember tomorrow is a new day and even if it doesn't seem like it...it is an opportunity for something good.
i know you are not up to chatting but just know i care.
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newts
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Sadness
Mar 14, 2008 4:53:09 GMT -5
Post by newts on Mar 14, 2008 4:53:09 GMT -5
Hi J (I am asuming you are trapped from Ojar?)
If you are trapped, I left Ojar in 2006 and now we are in 2008. Your story has remained unchanged?
I can understand why you were devastated, sad and confused in 2006, however, you have decided to remain in the past!
Stop feeling sorry for yourself, your smart, independent and don't need your sorry arse ex. Remember why you left! Take a hold of yourself, eliminate the negatives in your life, icluding negative memories, people and past experiences and embrace your new life, your seachange.
Sorry for being straight forward, however, I truly believed you would have moved on and have an amazing life by now!
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Sadness
Mar 17, 2008 13:04:52 GMT -5
Post by J (Hot Mess) on Mar 17, 2008 13:04:52 GMT -5
Yes Newts thats me. No unfortunately things have gotten much, much worse. My illness has progressed and I can no longer do my job effectively not to mention the state of the financial markets here in the US ( I work on Wall Street). I will be losing my home and my career. No... things arent better. Not by a long shot. Things are killing me. Thanks for remembering me and I wish I had a happy ever after story to tell you but I dint think all of us get those happy endings we hear about.....youve got yourself living proof right here. And self-pity is so ugly. Ive always said that.
PS-I wasnt the one who left. My ex left b/c he was sick of dealing with me being ill. Unhealthy people arent nearly as fun.
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Sadness
Mar 23, 2008 14:56:51 GMT -5
Post by freckles on Mar 23, 2008 14:56:51 GMT -5
Yes Newts thats me. No unfortunately things have gotten much, much worse. My illness has progressed and I can no longer do my job effectively not to mention the state of the financial markets here in the US ( I work on Wall Street). I will be losing my home and my career. No... things arent better. Not by a long shot. Things are killing me. Thanks for remembering me and I wish I had a happy ever after story to tell you but I dint think all of us get those happy endings we hear about.....youve got yourself living proof right here. And self-pity is so ugly. Ive always said that. PS-I wasnt the one who left. My ex left b/c he was sick of dealing with me being ill. Unhealthy people arent nearly as fun. I will Pray for You
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