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Post by finding on Mar 13, 2008 11:07:19 GMT -5
Thanks.. Shey.. They said they would let all the administration know to keep an eye out but the best they can do is just give me a call if she shows up. Since she does have "legal custody" of my daughter through our divorce papers and I have legal custody of my son.. there is not much they can do to stop her. I will be filing for full custody tomorrow. Forgot my damn final decree at home this morning. Get an RO against her that lists the kids as well and then take it to the school. They cannot let the kids go with her then, it gives you temporary custody until things can be figured out in court.
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Post by redskyatnight on Mar 13, 2008 12:35:34 GMT -5
Hey Kermie,
It stinks that you had to go through this. I hope the kids are doing allright through it. I can PM you the name of a great attorney in the area if you need one.
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Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Mar 13, 2008 12:40:34 GMT -5
Hey Kermie, It stinks that you had to go through this. I hope the kids are doing allright through it. I can PM you the name of a great attorney in the area if you need one. Thanks.. I had a pretty good one for the divorce.. problem is back then I had a little free cash. Having the kids full time kinda makes ya live paycheck to paycheck which I could care less about.. till crap like this comes up.
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Post by wizer on Mar 13, 2008 12:41:58 GMT -5
Well, every cloud has a silver lining. You know what I am going through with my kids.
I would give anything to have a full time relatinship with them. There are some things that money can't buy.
So at least you have them, and they want to be with you.
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Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Mar 13, 2008 12:43:43 GMT -5
true dat
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Post by pennylane on Mar 14, 2008 13:16:48 GMT -5
Thanks.. I had a pretty good one for the divorce.. problem is back then I had a little free cash. Having the kids full time kinda makes ya live paycheck to paycheck which I could care less about.. till crap like this comes up. Does she not have to give you any $$ support at all?
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Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Mar 17, 2008 14:22:58 GMT -5
I know have full custody of both my kids ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Mar 17, 2008 14:24:27 GMT -5
Thanks.. I had a pretty good one for the divorce.. problem is back then I had a little free cash. Having the kids full time kinda makes ya live paycheck to paycheck which I could care less about.. till crap like this comes up. Does she not have to give you any $$ support at all? Sorry penny just saw this.. No I tried asking for it once and she went nuts.. sometimes its better to be just making it than have money and deal with the BS.
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Post by rocko on Mar 17, 2008 14:27:12 GMT -5
I know have full custody of both my kids ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D That was super fast. Did you have some super evidence against her or something???
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Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Mar 17, 2008 14:28:31 GMT -5
My daughter told her this is what she wanted .. so I had the addendum to the divorce degree drawn up.. She met me today at the bank.. signed it and had it notorized
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Post by wizer on Mar 17, 2008 14:29:06 GMT -5
Does she not have to give you any $$ support at all? Sorry penny just saw this.. No I tried asking for it once and she went nuts.. sometimes its better to be just making it than have money and deal with the BS. Sounds like shes nuts anyways. She is responsible and obligated to pay support. I get so pissed off when I see parents getting away with not supporting their kids, because I am getting run through a financial meat grinder. My GF is in the same spot. Her ex stopped paying months ago..she will "get to the courthouse eventually" to go after him...? No better time than the present.
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Post by finding on Mar 17, 2008 14:37:05 GMT -5
Finally am I getting the support that the kids deserve. The state of Oregon said he only had to pay $300 a month for all three kids, and even that was too much for him to do. Going through his belongings I discovered where all his money was going to.
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Post by genesplicer on Mar 17, 2008 14:40:35 GMT -5
I know have full custody of both my kids ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D That's by far the best thing I've heard all day!!! Congrats buddy, it's a silver lining day.
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Post by wizer on Mar 17, 2008 14:42:02 GMT -5
Going through his belongings I discovered where all his money was going to. drugs?
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Post by lumpy on Mar 17, 2008 14:43:53 GMT -5
Yay! Great to hear this Kermie!
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