super
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Post by super on Jan 23, 2008 1:15:33 GMT -5
This is so confusing. I'm not ready to be in a relationship right now. Dating is okay, but I want to just date people I feel lukewarm about to get practice.
Now, I'm dating one guy that I actually like. He seems to have all the things I'm looking for. Only one date so far, but we plan to see each other at least a couple more times.
Tonight, a friend asked me out. I've been nursing a small crush on him for over a month. I may have flirted because I'm a shameless flirt. I really do like him though so I had to be honest and tell him that I had just gotten out of a long relationship and that I'm just not ready right now. I feel elated because he likes me too and crushed because I can't handle it. It's horrible to have to say no when he knows who I am and likes me because of it.
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Post by jules on Jan 23, 2008 10:15:44 GMT -5
Tonight, a friend asked me out. I've been nursing a small crush on him for over a month. I may have flirted because I'm a shameless flirt. I really do like him though so I had to be honest and tell him that I had just gotten out of a long relationship and that I'm just not ready right now. I feel elated because he likes me too and crushed because I can't handle it. It's horrible to have to say no when he knows who I am and likes me because of it. I'm not sure I understand why you said "no"? Hanging out with someone you like who likes you sounds like a good thing... no?
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Post by freckles on Jan 23, 2008 11:10:25 GMT -5
You should say * YES ! * I think you should Marry Him
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Post by Saucy on Jan 23, 2008 13:19:50 GMT -5
Life is only as hard as you make it to be. Some people resist to embrace their surroundings, and only concentrating on all the negative events that are happening. Everytime I feel down because of being lonely, or whatever, i always think about the boy next door to me who lies in a hospital bed in front of the window (they leave it open sometimes), hes on some kind of machine..he can't move, his life is OVER. but his family never gives up. Be grateful of hard times, good times, even harder times in life. Because there are some people out there who simply just can't enjoy those moments in life. They just open their eyes to another dying day.
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