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Post by freckles on Mar 16, 2008 12:58:13 GMT -5
If I have to walk on Eggshells and don't call or email until this or that Or * Don't say this or don't say that Don't ask this or don't ask that Do the Dating Dance just right And even if you do it just right its still wrong I am thinking that I want a Woman who *Wants* me And who has a *Bit* of wanting me in Her attitude. In other words, I dont want a Woman with her Nose up in the Air A regular Friendly Lady They are Scarce
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Post by newts on Mar 16, 2008 19:49:59 GMT -5
Walking on eggshells is certainly not a good thing. You are in your right to want a woman who wants you, doesn't work any other way. One sided relationships only serve to hurt one party or both parties involved.
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 20:16:16 GMT -5
You could also hurt your feet. Broken eggshells can be quite sharp!
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Post by Jaded on Mar 16, 2008 20:54:12 GMT -5
Look for the silver lining. Eggshells have calcium.
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 22:43:21 GMT -5
JS, don't tell him that Eggshells have calcium.
Freckles eats EVERYTHING
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Post by ionysis on Mar 17, 2008 2:16:15 GMT -5
Freck, I think that is true. The problem is that all human beings, or the majority, are scared and worried. We worry people aren't good people, we worry we might make the wrong choices, we are afraid we will get hurt or humiliated... The list is endless.
People look for certain signals right at the beginning because they don't KNOW you. They can only judge whether you might be right by some obviously and rather clumsy markers. Once you get to know someone those things don't matter.
You've seen some of the posts here from Hugthat ladies where they have had stalkers and wierdos following them. The things women are scared of include that so one of the things they look for are indications or warning signs that this stranger they have met isn't a scary or dangerous person. In the online dating world that translates into these seemingly silly "rules".
I don't think it is about getting things "right" all the time, it is about making sure you don't trigger a woman's freak radar by accident.
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Post by rocko on Mar 17, 2008 9:11:47 GMT -5
If you send someone 5 messages before they have a chance to respond...you send stalker signals and scare people off.
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Post by freckles on Mar 17, 2008 9:25:59 GMT -5
If you send someone 5 messages before they have a chance to respond...you send stalker signals and scare people off. I suppose its like Sex The 5 minute Quickie Is not as good as the 5 to 10 hour one where you go Slow and do everything just right So your Woman has had many many Orgasms and is exhausted and smiling in that certan way
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Post by rocko on Mar 17, 2008 9:40:53 GMT -5
no comment
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Post by freckles on Mar 17, 2008 10:06:22 GMT -5
I guess I PM'ed that 1 I like to much She wanted to go out this week So I gave her my contact info and asked for hers I sent a couple more friendly emails She sent nothing P.S. Can I delete her from my MySpace Page as a Friend ?
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Post by bobfromacctg on Mar 17, 2008 10:23:11 GMT -5
What does that mean? Did you leave out a word? If you left out the word I think you left out then yes, you did indeed scare her off.
As for deleting her from your myspace...give it some time. Don't react so quick to that since it will let her know that you deleted her. If she is interested but cautious, give her some time to see that maybe you over-reacted and you have calmed down. If you have not heard anything in a week, then yes, delete her.
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Post by freckles on Mar 17, 2008 10:26:03 GMT -5
What word did I leave out ?
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Post by bobfromacctg on Mar 17, 2008 10:56:51 GMT -5
Like to WHAT?
ir like to much what? That sentance makes no sense.
You like HER too much? Not appropriate since you don't know her You like se x too much? Not appropriate since you don't know her
Does that help?
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Post by freckles on Mar 17, 2008 11:36:56 GMT -5
I was saying I sent to many PMs
Because I like Her
I guess She Likes only 1 Pm
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Post by freckles on Mar 17, 2008 11:42:08 GMT -5
I did notice on MySpace you can send a message to all your Friends at the same time
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