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Post by hoodieprincess on Jan 28, 2008 10:51:53 GMT -5
So, he's been out of jail for almost a month and yet to pay child support again. And, of course the scrathed record has started again. It's not like I ask if he's paid. I know better. I don't know why he asks if I got a check. Of course the answer is, "No..." And, then all I hear is, "My boss took it down there and paid it weeks ago. I don't know what happened to it," or, "It was sent. I'll check on it," or, "I know it was paid. I don't know what they did wrong. They messed up somewhere. It wasn't my fault." Seriously, shut the hell up already. I am so tired of the same effing thing. This is all I heard (almost weekly) before he went to jail. He was there a year and it's back to this?!?! He seriously didn't learn a damn thing?!?! You know, I don't know why I am supprised but I hoped that might be his rock bottom and snap him out of it. Guess not.
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Post by JC on Jan 28, 2008 10:56:48 GMT -5
does he get it deducted out of his paycheck? if so i would contact his employer. they can get in serious trouble for not paying the child support.
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Post by hoodieprincess on Jan 28, 2008 11:02:24 GMT -5
Can't keep track of where he works. He usually works under the table. Yes, we've been dealing with this for a very long time. And, part of the reason the frustration is SO high is that he spent time in jail in my county for not paying support for L and another county for not paying for one of his other sons. That much jail time for not paying support and you would think he'd get his a$$ in gear!
If I could find where he worked I would get the info turned in to social services so they could the get deduction papers sent but he doesn't have a steady job (though that was court ordered too). Contempt charges last time took 2 years to get action on...I guess he knows that even if he doesn't do what the courts order he's got time on his side.
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Post by JC on Jan 28, 2008 11:34:59 GMT -5
ugh... im sorry girl! we actually have guys that quit working when we start taking out chid support. ridiculous!
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Post by rocko on Jan 31, 2008 12:30:36 GMT -5
OMG, my ex must use the same employer, post office and bank. LOL
Seriously like I am going to believe that the post office, bank, etc are the ones messing up all the time.
Sorry you have do deal with his sorry ass.
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