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Post by wizer on Mar 19, 2008 21:21:29 GMT -5
What are you doing there besides this stuff?
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Post by murdock on Mar 19, 2008 21:22:41 GMT -5
Murdock if the reason you can't leave work is you don't want to leave this forum then girlfriend you better get a strong script. LOL I agree but what is a script?
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Post by murdock on Mar 19, 2008 21:23:05 GMT -5
What are you doing there besides this stuff? NOTHING
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Post by murdock on Mar 19, 2008 21:23:27 GMT -5
Ok... I am leaving.... right now... just one more second.
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Post by wizer on Mar 19, 2008 21:32:03 GMT -5
Murdock if the reason you can't leave work is you don't want to leave this forum then girlfriend you better get a strong script. LOL I agree but what is a script? An Rx for medication.
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Post by finding on Mar 20, 2008 14:22:00 GMT -5
I've been thinking about this since last night and now I'm scared to tell him. I didn't purposely not tell him, it just slipped my mind, but he might take it that way and see it as a lie.
Fuck, I think I may have ruined something that could have been good.
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Post by prairienomad on Mar 20, 2008 14:32:56 GMT -5
Fuck, I think I may have ruined something that could have been good. Nahhh, I don't think so, Finding. You haven't done anything wrong. You were just relaxing and enjoying yourself with this cool, new guy. Don't start saying that you messed it up, because that kind of thinking will make you start feeling guilty, and then he will sense that you have a different "vibe." You haven't deliberately hid anything from him; it just hasn't come up because you are having fun. I don't think you "owe" him any information at this point. AT ALL. But as you guys keep having fun, you will keep telling him more and more about your life, and obviously, this is part of your life. DON'T WORRY!! It sounds like something really positive in your life. If you want to tell him right away, just pick a time that both of you are relaxed and have plenty of time to talk, and let him know about your boys. If you are positive about it, there's a good chance he will be, too. And if not, then oh well, adios, amigo!! Honestly, just keep enjoying what's happening, Finding!! It's great! Take care!!!
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Post by murdock on Mar 20, 2008 14:38:36 GMT -5
I've been thinking about this since last night and now I'm scared to tell him. I didn't purposely not tell him, it just slipped my mind, but he might take it that way and see it as a lie. Fuck, I think I may have ruined something that could have been good. I think that you are underestimating this guy.
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Post by Jaded on Mar 20, 2008 14:48:02 GMT -5
Do you always stress like this over these things, or is this new? I ask because if you do this a lot you are going to give yourself an ulcer or some other stress related illnes... I think you are stressing out unnecessarily. GIve the guy some credit...I think the longer you withold it then when he does find out he might think you tried to trap or trick him if he isn't an understanding kind of guy.
And if he isn't an understanding guy, do you really want him?
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Post by finding on Mar 20, 2008 15:39:13 GMT -5
Do you always stress like this over these things, or is this new? I ask because if you do this a lot you are going to give yourself an ulcer or some other stress related illnes... I think you are stressing out unnecessarily. GIve the guy some credit...I think the longer you withold it then when he does find out he might think you tried to trap or trick him if he isn't an understanding kind of guy. And if he isn't an understanding guy, do you really want him? I'm a high strung person. I'm a lot better than I used to be, but from time to time it still gets the better of me. That's one thing I like about what is going on with EG, there is no stress or drama. With this news it will most likely change, and right now I don't want it to.
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Post by Jaded on Mar 20, 2008 16:15:35 GMT -5
Here is one thing I caution you on finding....if he is the kind of man who is very low key and has no stress or drama he might have a hard time handling it. This is the early stages so I only say this as something to be on the lookout for.
Highstrung perosnalities and low key personalities can either balance each other out or the high strung one really stresses the low key one out. They are not used to a lot of stressing the small stuff.
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