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Post by Saucy on Mar 20, 2008 12:09:22 GMT -5
I know that some of you may have gone through one hell of a divorce, ALL which dwindled down to community property, and who gets what and how much who gets.. IF and when you do decide to get married again, wouldnt it be the smart thing to draw up a pre-nup, because we all know that shit happens, AND sometimes when hell and high water hit, people are emotionally stir crazy, decide to pull the plug on the marriage.
Some of you may say that marriage should be about "love" and not about property ownership, but i feel that "just-in-case" shit happens, and to avoid the nightmarish fees of an attorney and the battles in court, to fight for something as simple as a ladder, people should nowadays sign some sort of an agreement. EVEN if it has to be on a bar napkin.
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Post by goods on Mar 20, 2008 12:10:29 GMT -5
If you want me to sign a prenup Saucy, I will.
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Post by Saucy on Mar 20, 2008 12:17:45 GMT -5
Awesome, so you agree that pre-nups should be absolutley necessary in embarking in a second, third, fourth marriage right? cool.
what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine. agree? hhaahhaaaa
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Post by jules on Mar 20, 2008 12:23:08 GMT -5
I'm not sure about other states, but in my state the assets each individual brought into the marriage are not considered community property.
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Post by Saucy on Mar 20, 2008 12:31:55 GMT -5
true BUT when you've been in a marriage for let's say 5, 10 years, you would have to PROVE that that property wasnt acquired after the marriage. people lose track of shit.
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Post by goods on Mar 20, 2008 12:40:05 GMT -5
Awesome, so you agree that pre-nups should be absolutley necessary in embarking in a second, third, fourth marriage right? cool. what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine. agree? hhaahhaaaa What's yours is yours, if that is how you feel. And if married what is mine is ours, that's they way I feel. If we split up and you feel the need to have some possession, then it will be yours.
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Post by jules on Mar 20, 2008 12:40:39 GMT -5
if the assets are in the form of money and investments, they are sort of a pain in the ass to obtain sometimes, but it's doable.
it's also why i would never have a joint account with anyone unless i was legally married to him.
but i see your point. and i do think that when one partner brings significantly more assets into the marriage than the other s/he ought to take steps to protect him/herself, whether that be by requiring a pre-nup, or just keeping really good records. knowing what i know now, i'd advise anyone to do that, whether it's the first marriage or the 10th.
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Post by Saucy on Mar 20, 2008 12:50:14 GMT -5
Awesome, so you agree that pre-nups should be absolutley necessary in embarking in a second, third, fourth marriage right? cool. what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine. agree? hhaahhaaaa What's yours is yours, if that is how you feel. And if married what is mine is ours, that's they way I feel. If we split up and you feel the need to have some possession, then it will be yours. i was only kidding my love. i would not take anything that is yours.
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Post by goods on Mar 20, 2008 12:53:10 GMT -5
What's yours is yours, if that is how you feel. And if married what is mine is ours, that's they way I feel. If we split up and you feel the need to have some possession, then it will be yours. i was only kidding my love. i would not take anything that is yours. my heart, my love, my ummm seed?
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Post by murdock on Mar 20, 2008 13:06:13 GMT -5
i was only kidding my love. i would not take anything that is yours. my heart, my love, my ummm seed? I think he wants to plant something Sauce
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Post by Saucy on Mar 20, 2008 13:10:26 GMT -5
For you goods, you could plant a farm!
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Post by goods on Mar 20, 2008 13:11:37 GMT -5
For you goods, you could plant a farm!
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Post by freckles on Mar 20, 2008 19:43:24 GMT -5
Can you put in the Prenup that the other Person has to be Nice and Love you Forevor
And if they Cheat
And Divorce you
They must never get married agan
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Post by Phyxius on Mar 20, 2008 22:59:39 GMT -5
Awesome, so you agree that pre-nups should be absolutley necessary in embarking in a second, third, fourth marriage right? cool. what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine. agree? hhaahhaaaa Only if I get custody of the video tapes...
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Post by murdock on Mar 21, 2008 2:03:44 GMT -5
For you goods, you could plant a farm! wow... a farm is really large... you might want to think about a house plant first... before a comitment like that... just my $0.02... and I won't send you a bill for it later ;D
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