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Post by crushy on May 11, 2008 3:33:23 GMT -5
Who knows what ever happened to flipflopnomore? I've wondered about her and hope she's doing well. If anyone ever hears from her, tell her we're thinking of her. Crushy
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Post by ionysis on Jun 4, 2008 3:10:16 GMT -5
Didn't she find out she was pregnant and end up getting back with her husband?
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Post by flipflopnomore on Jun 6, 2008 16:19:50 GMT -5
Hey...I just got caught up on this board and old Ojar...Thanks for asking about me...
Well, its been a long almost year but in the end I have a beautiful baby girl.
In a nutshell I found out I was pregnant with exh's child last July. He was trying to live 2 lives through most of the pregnancy. He would spend time here with me and then behind my back spend some time with OW. He couldn't quite let go of her and she wasn't releasing so easily. Finally about 5 weeks before I had baby I found out he was with her and I had enough. Things from there turned around and we are doing really good. He (in front of me) told her to leave him alone. Its hard for me to forgive and trust again but I am trying. He is moved back in and is really trying.
Its definately one day at a time but we both are in love with our surprise little girl who was born on h's birthday. She is now 10 weeks old and is the best thing ever.
I am going to catch up with everyone....I missed you all.
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Post by freckles on Jun 6, 2008 16:54:28 GMT -5
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Post by crushy on Jun 7, 2008 1:51:36 GMT -5
Hey...I just got caught up on this board and old Ojar...Thanks for asking about me... Well, its been a long almost year but in the end I have a beautiful baby girl. In a nutshell I found out I was pregnant with exh's child last July. He was trying to live 2 lives through most of the pregnancy. He would spend time here with me and then behind my back spend some time with OW. He couldn't quite let go of her and she wasn't releasing so easily. Finally about 5 weeks before I had baby I found out he was with her and I had enough. Things from there turned around and we are doing really good. He (in front of me) told her to leave him alone. Its hard for me to forgive and trust again but I am trying. He is moved back in and is really trying. Its definately one day at a time but we both are in love with our surprise little girl who was born on h's birthday. She is now 10 weeks old and is the best thing ever. I am going to catch up with everyone....I missed you all. Thanks for the update, flip. I've wondered how the baby was and if your ex was treating you both (and your other kids) the way you deserve to be treated. I hope things work out for you. Crushy
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Post by wizer on Jun 7, 2008 11:48:36 GMT -5
FlipFlop I think I flirted with you once over at Ojar.
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Post by ionysis on Jun 7, 2008 23:02:10 GMT -5
Really glad things worked out for you and congratulations on your new baby.
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Post by flipflopnomore on Jun 10, 2008 16:46:34 GMT -5
Thank you. The baby is wonderful and such a blessing.
Exh and I are trying to put things back together. I think its harder than before. You bring in such hurt and baggage that you need to leave at the door and sometimes that isn't easy.
He lives here but we haven't talked about remarriage yet. It does feel like we are married again but better. We both agreed that we had issues to overcome and are working on those. My biggest ones are that he is going to flee again when/if things get hard. He knows my insecurities and says things are different this time. Only time will tell I guess.
Maybe the baby coming made us look at things a little differently. Gave us a reason to try harder.
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Post by pennylane on Jun 25, 2008 18:36:49 GMT -5
Thank you. The baby is wonderful and such a blessing. Exh and I are trying to put things back together. I think its harder than before. You bring in such hurt and baggage that you need to leave at the door and sometimes that isn't easy. He lives here but we haven't talked about remarriage yet. It does feel like we are married again but better. We both agreed that we had issues to overcome and are working on those. My biggest ones are that he is going to flee again when/if things get hard. He knows my insecurities and says things are different this time. Only time will tell I guess. Maybe the baby coming made us look at things a little differently. Gave us a reason to try harder. Flipper, I've thought about you so much this past year. So glad to read these posts. Please keep us updated. I miss talking to ya. Hope all is working out well for you and your family. PL
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