Post by redskyatnight on Dec 2, 2008 10:17:32 GMT -5
It has become a game, .....kinda. The one thing left on the property settlement is the engagement ring. You are suppose to give it to me with the associated paperwork. I'm suppose to put it in an estate sale, then split the proceeds with you. You agreed to this back in May of 07. We have talked about it in counseling on at least three different occassions. You even said, in front of the counselor, that you had the paperwork.
We have had two dates to make the exchange. You cancelled the first and yesterday, you said you didn't have the paperwork. You never heard about the paperwork and when I become human you will talk to me. There were a couple more insults, but honestly, I don't remember them.
You know what surprised me. It did NOT upset me that you were name calling and throwing insults my way. Since you do not have the paperwork, you seem to think you don't have to return the ring. But guess what, the ring can be recertified and I can deduct the cost from the proceeds you get from the sale. Oh wait, you didn't like that idea and hung up on me.
Well, that leaves a "Show Cause" order for which you will have to pay both sets of attorney fees. I'm not letting this go simply because you got angry. so nannnnny nannnnnny booooo boooooo [Insert: emoticon sticking its tongue out]
Post by redskyatnight on Dec 15, 2008 11:32:27 GMT -5
Our next appointment is in the middle of January. He has two weeks to get the ring appraised. I need to see the paperwork on that. If he doens't sell it or write me a check for half of the appraised value by our next meeting, it will be the number 1 thing we talk about.
I thank God everyday for co-parenting. It has given me neutral ground to discuss hot topics without it turning ugly. It has also had significant improvement on his behavior.
Post by redskyatnight on Jan 6, 2009 12:33:12 GMT -5
Still no update on the ring, but what did I expect. Actually, I expected this......the promise to do something, then no action. You'll have to answer for it on Monday, then I'll have to make a call to my lawyer.
Oh and by the way, you say that I'm the one who likes to go to court, but who is it that had to go in October for 2 counts of "weeds higher than 12 inches", 2 counts of "unmaintained structures" and 2 counts of "trash accumulation?" Not me..........
Oh and the expired registration that you appealed to the circuit court in December. That means you went to court twice for an expired registration. I wonder how long it will be until the cop pulls you over for the expired Inspection Sticker you've had since Thanksgiving or the expired registration on the trailer you bought.
And what's up with last night, you say "Maybe I'll tell you the date for our daugher's entrance test." Maybe you will? Probably you won't.
Time and time again, I feel such relief that I don't have to fix your irresponsibility. One day, I'd really like to find that adultress of yours and thank her from the bottom of my heart for being the straw that broke the camels back. My life is so much better without you in it everyday!