Post by crushy on Oct 18, 2008 6:36:38 GMT -5
I am now positive my ex does not want actual joint custody, but just the $. I offered him 130 nights in our last Meditation in June, but that wasn't enough $ to him. I recently found out he's just a Crime Scene Tech which makes sense why I make so much more $ than him.
When I talked with someone that deals with them, he told me he's nothing but a grunt. Hey, it's a fair living, but why push my sons for his choices?! I think back to the days I'd come home from work and the bed was not made tight and tidy, only to find he'd leave in the snow, wait around the corner until I went to work so he could climb back in bed. WTH? He could have dropped those classes before we had to pay full price for him to fail?!
I've kept a spreadsheet for the past 2 yrs since we went to court the 1st time and he claimed he had to take them because I could not / would not care for them. I'm an Accountant that sits all day, I'd had my tail-bone removed 13 yrs after breaking it while giving birth to my oldest son. I was dumb enough (even after being warned by my in-laws) to believe he and his wife were being supportive knowing I needed to lay flat as many hours as possible. Thanks to my gut and my in-laws, I have a written record from him to me or he didn't take 'em.
I've kept the spreadsheet with an e-mail from him to me for any time over standard visitation. Funny, I've offered them 3 times more than he's requested them.
The witch obviously doesn't want them, especially now that they have their own son. She pulled off the ultimate wifey and mommy until now...he's on his own.
Karma really is a bitch. He left me after being hit by a semi and enduring many surgeries, but now I've gone back to work, make more than him and kept my house (they just lost their's). Hmm, I guess what goes around really does come around. I'm engaged to an incredible man that is honest, successful and wonderful. When my ex left me, I couldn't figure out why and now, not only do I not care, but I'm glad he did.
I thought I was actually happy. Now, I am happier than I ever thought possible. Nothing is perfect and I won't pretend it is, but being in love with someone that is honest and real is incredible.
I'm having to take the puke to court to order him to pay for braces (already in the decree) since my oldest has TMJ. I guess the freak conveniently forgot the 2 jaw repair surgeries I had after being hit by the semi. Of course, he had no problem living off of my settlement while he worked for free for the police department to gain experience for the job he has now. He left when all I had was $2,000 left.
He's fighting paying me a whopping $550 per mo for 2 teen sons? That's 1/4 of one house pmt!!
Same song, different day...
When I talked with someone that deals with them, he told me he's nothing but a grunt. Hey, it's a fair living, but why push my sons for his choices?! I think back to the days I'd come home from work and the bed was not made tight and tidy, only to find he'd leave in the snow, wait around the corner until I went to work so he could climb back in bed. WTH? He could have dropped those classes before we had to pay full price for him to fail?!
I've kept a spreadsheet for the past 2 yrs since we went to court the 1st time and he claimed he had to take them because I could not / would not care for them. I'm an Accountant that sits all day, I'd had my tail-bone removed 13 yrs after breaking it while giving birth to my oldest son. I was dumb enough (even after being warned by my in-laws) to believe he and his wife were being supportive knowing I needed to lay flat as many hours as possible. Thanks to my gut and my in-laws, I have a written record from him to me or he didn't take 'em.
I've kept the spreadsheet with an e-mail from him to me for any time over standard visitation. Funny, I've offered them 3 times more than he's requested them.
The witch obviously doesn't want them, especially now that they have their own son. She pulled off the ultimate wifey and mommy until now...he's on his own.
Karma really is a bitch. He left me after being hit by a semi and enduring many surgeries, but now I've gone back to work, make more than him and kept my house (they just lost their's). Hmm, I guess what goes around really does come around. I'm engaged to an incredible man that is honest, successful and wonderful. When my ex left me, I couldn't figure out why and now, not only do I not care, but I'm glad he did.
I thought I was actually happy. Now, I am happier than I ever thought possible. Nothing is perfect and I won't pretend it is, but being in love with someone that is honest and real is incredible.
I'm having to take the puke to court to order him to pay for braces (already in the decree) since my oldest has TMJ. I guess the freak conveniently forgot the 2 jaw repair surgeries I had after being hit by the semi. Of course, he had no problem living off of my settlement while he worked for free for the police department to gain experience for the job he has now. He left when all I had was $2,000 left.
He's fighting paying me a whopping $550 per mo for 2 teen sons? That's 1/4 of one house pmt!! Same song, different day...
