Post by wizer on Dec 31, 2007 11:08:38 GMT -5
About my GF.
Because I have seen a few comments and I have received some PMs lately.
I have posted in the past that she is quite clingy, and there was a virtual list of things that she requested that I do...
From saying "I Love You" back to her, to sitting next to her in a restaurant booth, to sleeping facing her, to cleaning up my apartment before she gets there, to expecting a multitude of phone calls per day...etc.
Well, January 1st is going to be 6 months together, and I am happy to say that things are going quite well.
In regard to the original list...
Her phone calls are still a bit more than I would like, but closer to 5x per day rather than more than a dozen.
She cleans my apartment and does the dishes when she comes over. She doesnt even say a word.
The "I Love You's" have dropped to 2-3x per week, and if I dont say it back she only stares me down for about 7 seconds, and if I dont say it back she looks away and its ok. But I usually say it because as suggested, it reinforces the fact that I "feel strongly" even though it might not be "Love" in the truest sense of the word.
My houseplants are behind the sink where I want them.
I sleep facing away from her without her awakening me and rolling me back to her. In fact, now SHE spoonsME and it feels good, especially when she caresses my chest while in the spoon position.
I sometimes sit next to her in a restaurant, sometimes across. I may get a "look" but it's all good.
I forget what else was on the list but its all worked out...
It just took some persistance and patience.
I can be very persistant. Not so patient though.
Because I have seen a few comments and I have received some PMs lately.
I have posted in the past that she is quite clingy, and there was a virtual list of things that she requested that I do...
From saying "I Love You" back to her, to sitting next to her in a restaurant booth, to sleeping facing her, to cleaning up my apartment before she gets there, to expecting a multitude of phone calls per day...etc.
Well, January 1st is going to be 6 months together, and I am happy to say that things are going quite well.
In regard to the original list...
Her phone calls are still a bit more than I would like, but closer to 5x per day rather than more than a dozen.
She cleans my apartment and does the dishes when she comes over. She doesnt even say a word.
The "I Love You's" have dropped to 2-3x per week, and if I dont say it back she only stares me down for about 7 seconds, and if I dont say it back she looks away and its ok. But I usually say it because as suggested, it reinforces the fact that I "feel strongly" even though it might not be "Love" in the truest sense of the word.
My houseplants are behind the sink where I want them.
I sleep facing away from her without her awakening me and rolling me back to her. In fact, now SHE spoonsME and it feels good, especially when she caresses my chest while in the spoon position.
I sometimes sit next to her in a restaurant, sometimes across. I may get a "look" but it's all good.
I forget what else was on the list but its all worked out...
It just took some persistance and patience.
I can be very persistant. Not so patient though.
