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Post by lqdKaos on Jan 11, 2008 17:44:59 GMT -5
My perfect partner can be described with one word . . . . . . . . . . LadyJ
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Post by Phoenixx on Jan 11, 2008 17:46:25 GMT -5
Oh yeah?!!!
Revelation Revelations....!!!
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 11, 2008 17:47:22 GMT -5
I meant "own home" as just an example of a personal accomplishment one may have to be proud of or may want to work towards. Specifically owning one's home isn't a criteria. I included the part about accomplishments because my ex never really accomplished anything on his own so he didn't understand the personal pride that one could take in doing so. It's nothing to do with material wealth and everything to do with finding satisfaction from within due to achieving certain things. And, yes, you're absolutely right, because I didn't specify "character" it must not be important to me. (Seriously, I thought #6 sort of alluded to one's character.) It isn't important to me that a potential mate be wealthy, but it is important to me that he have the ability and desire to support himself. If he was unable or unwilling to do so, yes, it would be a red flag for me despite other good qualities, just due to my own personal experience. Yeah, I hear you. I don't blame you for wanting to take precautions to avoid the deadbeats. There's a lot of them out there. But I always cringe when I think about people who equate personal worth with personal accomplishments. They tend to be egotistical, fragile and insecure. They prove themselves by what they are able to do. The more they can accomplish, the more they feel they are worth. People like this fall apart if they find themselves unable to work because their entire identity is wrapped up in their ability to perform for themselves and others. To me, doing what is I feel is right, is much more valuable that just racking up accomplishments that I can sit back and admire. If I end up with nothing in this life other than knowing I followed my heart i'll be happy. I guess I would say, just be careful of jumping from one extreme to the other. Your ex was somewhat of a deadbeat, but don't go from a deadbeat to a man who's identity is based on what he can accomplish. Of course, that's just my own personal opinion.
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Post by Saucy on Jan 11, 2008 18:11:02 GMT -5
Responsible. Affectionate Great masseuse. Great Cook. Smart. Empathetic. Real. Honest. Healthy. Good Hygiene. Great Appearance. Great Sense of Humor. 6-8 inches. around. hahaaaha Great Musician. Great Writer. Attractive. Great with Money. Great with Kids. Team Player. Motivational. Inspirational. Thoughtful. Faithful. Romantic. Successful. Compassionate.
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Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Jan 11, 2008 18:15:03 GMT -5
My perfect partner: well hung obedient wealthy well hung adores me obedient well hung domesticated Don't know how rich he is.. but it might work...and he will never forget you awwwwwwww
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ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Jan 11, 2008 18:17:43 GMT -5
How dare you! LOL! My perfect partner: well hung obedient wealthy well hung adores me obedient well hung domesticated Don't know how rich he is.. but it might work...and he will never forget you awwwwwwww
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Post by ladyj on Jan 11, 2008 18:18:39 GMT -5
I am going to pretend I did not read that frecks lol My perfect partner: well hungobedient wealthy well hungadores me obedient well hungdomesticated What about BIG Balls ?
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crystal025
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"What's meant to be will ALWAYS find a way!"
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Post by crystal025 on Jan 11, 2008 18:33:31 GMT -5
All I need is:
Love Compassion Honesty Sense of humor Sensuality Romantic A good cook A GREAT lover Someone who will share hosuework Someone who can fix things (like the car or household stuff) A good kisser Someone with goals And ambition And plans for the future And a job And a car Dependability Creativity Spontanaity A passion for life
That should about do it ;D
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