warewa
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Post by warewa on Jan 11, 2008 15:43:29 GMT -5
Let's hear it!! Tell us about him/her!!
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Post by freckles on Jan 11, 2008 15:53:08 GMT -5
Nice Pretty Non Addicted to Drugs/Alcohol/Tobacco/Pot/Mind Pills Fertile Honest Integrity Clingy Warm Huggy Kissy 95 Pounds to 225 Pounds (Smaller than that is to Skinny, bigger than that is to Fat) Can Read & Wright = Extra Good Knows how to Cook = Extra Good as the Boobers get Bigger = Extra Good P.S. Has No Kids allready Or they are Grown and Gone Kids may be Ok if they like to Hoe Cotten & give thier Mom the money
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 11, 2008 15:55:47 GMT -5
Basically, my list is exactly like Freckles' list, but my perfect partner must be mute.
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Post by Saucy on Jan 11, 2008 16:01:39 GMT -5
Basically, my list is exactly like Freckles' list, but my perfect partner must be mute. haaaahaaha
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Post by Phoenixx on Jan 11, 2008 16:19:11 GMT -5
That is some backwards sh....
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ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Jan 11, 2008 16:20:54 GMT -5
Oh freckles I cannot resist...........
Can Read & Wright = Extra Good <---------- Would you like to rethink this?
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ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Jan 11, 2008 16:21:54 GMT -5
My perfect partner:
well hung obedient wealthy well hung adores me obedient well hung domesticated
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Post by Phyxius on Jan 11, 2008 16:24:32 GMT -5
My perfect partner: well hung obedient wealthy well hung adores me obedient well hung domesticated Well, we must have our priorities... ;D
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ladyj
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Post by ladyj on Jan 11, 2008 16:26:01 GMT -5
That we do, that we do.. My perfect partner: well hung obedient wealthy well hung adores me obedient well hung domesticated Well, we must have our priorities... ;D
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Post by jules on Jan 11, 2008 16:53:38 GMT -5
I actually already have a list written down! My friend and I each made one one night. (Ok, granted it was after a bottle of wine, but I still think it's quite sensible while sober.) We have promised to hold onto our lists and consult them to remind ourselves of what we really want vs. what we've been willing to settle for in the past and what we should hold out for going forward. Ok, my list:
1.) Equal in strength & assertiveness; ability and desire to be an equal partner
2.) Confidence in knowing his own strengths & weaknesses
3.) Possessing goals/dreams and being willing to work towards them. Must have passion.
4.) Take pride in accomplishments & have the desire to accomplish, i.e. support self & family, own home, & other personal accomplishments or desired accomplishments.
5.) Accept me for who I am; someone I can be myself around; someone I can laugh with often
6.) Have shared values i.e. moral, family importance, honesty; be a decent person; have a desire to be a benefit to society.
7.) Mutual chemistry, physical, mental, & emotional
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Post by blazinheart on Jan 11, 2008 17:03:10 GMT -5
5.) Accept me for who I am; someone I can be myself around; someone I can laugh with often 6.) Have shared values i.e. moral, family importance, honesty; be a decent person; have a desire to be a benefit to society. 7.) Mutual chemistry, physical, mental, & emotional I relate to these 3 the most. I realize it isn't my list, but I have a bit of a problem with the "own home" criteria. I think it's a bit shallow. Plenty of good men don't own their own home. And plenty of down right shitbags do own their own home. So I see it as irrelevant. You can't judge the quality or quantity of someone's character based on what they do or do not own. Then again, character wasn't on your list. What if you met a man who possesed strength, passion, assertiveness, accepted you for who you are, made you laugh, was attractive and yet didn't possess much material wealth?
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Post by jules on Jan 11, 2008 17:13:22 GMT -5
I have a bit of a problem with the "own home" criteria. I think it's a bit shallow. Plenty of good men don't own their own home. And plenty of down right shitbags do own their own home. So I see it as irrelevant. You can't judge the quality or quantity of someone's character based on what they do or do not own. Then again, character wasn't on your list. What if you met a man who possesed strength, passion, assertiveness, accepted you for who you are, made you laugh, was attractive and yet didn't possess much material wealth? I meant "own home" as just an example of a personal accomplishment one may have to be proud of or may want to work towards. Specifically owning one's home isn't a criteria. I included the part about accomplishments because my ex never really accomplished anything on his own so he didn't understand the personal pride that one could take in doing so. It's nothing to do with material wealth and everything to do with finding satisfaction from within due to achieving certain things. And, yes, you're absolutely right, because I didn't specify "character" it must not be important to me. (Seriously, I thought #6 sort of alluded to one's character.) It isn't important to me that a potential mate be wealthy, but it is important to me that he have the ability and desire to support himself. If he was unable or unwilling to do so, yes, it would be a red flag for me despite other good qualities, just due to my own personal experience.
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Post by freckles on Jan 11, 2008 17:27:50 GMT -5
I have a bit of a problem with the "own home" criteria. I think it's a bit shallow. Plenty of good men don't own their own home. And plenty of down right shitbags do own their own home. So I see it as irrelevant. You can't judge the quality or quantity of someone's character based on what they do or do not own. Then again, character wasn't on your list. What if you met a man who possesed strength, passion, assertiveness, accepted you for who you are, made you laugh, was attractive and yet didn't possess much material wealth? I meant "own home" as just an example of a personal accomplishment one may have to be proud of or may want to work towards. Specifically owning one's home isn't a criteria. I included the part about accomplishments because my ex never really accomplished anything on his own so he didn't understand the personal pride that one could take in doing so. It's nothing to do with material wealth and everything to do with finding satisfaction from within due to achieving certain things. And, yes, you're absolutely right, because I didn't specify "character" it must not be important to me. (Seriously, I thought #6 sort of alluded to one's character.) It isn't important to me that a potential mate be wealthy, but it is important to me that he have the ability and desire to support himself. If he was unable or unwilling to do so, yes, it would be a red flag for me despite other good qualities, just due to my own personal experience. Must have JobIs easy to say
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Post by freckles on Jan 11, 2008 17:29:22 GMT -5
My perfect partner: well hungobedient wealthy well hungadores me obedient well hungdomesticated What about BIG Balls ?
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Post by Phoenixx on Jan 11, 2008 17:34:37 GMT -5
My ideal partner would be - my best friend...
Let me edit that, not actually my best friend (the guy who is my best friend) but someone who can be my best friend.
OK I'm rambling.
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