Post by soupnazi on Feb 25, 2008 23:42:24 GMT -5
Hey all,
I am an old Ojar person...and since that place has went the way of the dodo...thought i would post over here.
Not that anyone would know me here, but i recognize alot of the old names...some that helped me out in those dark days.
I guess it is good to see a bunch of you oldies here...but I hope that we all have moved on. I hope that you, as I, have let the years go by, and have progressed into a new life.
Saying that, I still feel a kindred spirit with people that have went through the hell of divorce, the hell of being a spouse that got cheated on, and the hell of trying to figure out a new life on your own.
Don't know how much I will post here, but I read every day...and I gain strength from most of you. Strength from knowing that what I went through was worse than some, and strength from some of you that makes me realize that I don't know what true hell really is.
Thanks to all of you that bear your heart, that have the balls to reveal your true selves, to throw your feelings out, no matter how much it hurts. Thanks to those of you that reply, trying to do your best to lift someone up, even though you yourself are at the bottom.
Anyhow, I'm back here, if to do nothing more than read. Nah...I would truly love to try to help anyone that needs it. To tell someone that is going through the worst days of their lives...that its all just part of life and it really isn't that bad.
You get through it...you live, you learn, and you go on...and on the other side, you are a better person.
I am an old Ojar person...and since that place has went the way of the dodo...thought i would post over here.
Not that anyone would know me here, but i recognize alot of the old names...some that helped me out in those dark days.
I guess it is good to see a bunch of you oldies here...but I hope that we all have moved on. I hope that you, as I, have let the years go by, and have progressed into a new life.
Saying that, I still feel a kindred spirit with people that have went through the hell of divorce, the hell of being a spouse that got cheated on, and the hell of trying to figure out a new life on your own.
Don't know how much I will post here, but I read every day...and I gain strength from most of you. Strength from knowing that what I went through was worse than some, and strength from some of you that makes me realize that I don't know what true hell really is.
Thanks to all of you that bear your heart, that have the balls to reveal your true selves, to throw your feelings out, no matter how much it hurts. Thanks to those of you that reply, trying to do your best to lift someone up, even though you yourself are at the bottom.
Anyhow, I'm back here, if to do nothing more than read. Nah...I would truly love to try to help anyone that needs it. To tell someone that is going through the worst days of their lives...that its all just part of life and it really isn't that bad.
You get through it...you live, you learn, and you go on...and on the other side, you are a better person.