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Post by freckles on Jan 13, 2008 21:11:21 GMT -5
2 oclock in the morning last night and today
Wants me to visit her, when I go see one of my sisters that lives in the same area as her
Plus she keeps wanting $50.00
I would be very stuped to do that
She spent the last year of our marrage showing me how much she dislikes me and is Hostile/mad at me
What has changed in the time we have been Seperated and Divorced ?
She has what she was fighting for
A empty can of beer a empty bottle of wiskey and a ash tray full of ashes and a empty apartment and a broken car
I was in her way of living her Dream
Why would she want to talk to me ?
That is not me and my life
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Post by wizer on Jan 13, 2008 22:17:46 GMT -5
You already know what she wants. She wants 50 bucks. And if you give it to her, you will NEVER get her to stop asking you for more.
You are not a bank.
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Post by crushy on Jan 14, 2008 3:23:10 GMT -5
Steve is right, give in to her once and it will never stop. She's the same woman you divorced. It's sad that she is so desperate.
Freck, your divorce is final. You are free of the garbage. Enjoy it. Take advantage of the fact you are no longer her enabler. It's not good for you or for her. It's a temporary fix that only drags her down.
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Post by freckles on Jan 14, 2008 10:28:25 GMT -5
I will not give her any money at all
Because I know what she would do with it
The same thing she did with the $1400.00 the Judge made me give her
She would smoke/drink it
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Post by freckles on Jan 14, 2008 10:32:37 GMT -5
My Sister (The Nurse) thinks within a year (3 at most)
My ExWife will be in a Nursing home with anouther Stroke or Dead because of her abusing her body with her addictions
I tell Her to go into Treatment for 2 or 3 years and AA meetings and Church when she calls
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Post by gdgross on Jan 18, 2008 17:14:15 GMT -5
I tell Her to go into Treatment for 2 or 3 years and AA meetings and Church when she calls Freckles, your concern is admirable. But I wonder if it's best for you. If it were me in your shoes, I would never speak to her again. She knows what you think she should do; no need to tell her or to continue to take her calls. Do you have caller ID? If so I would not pick up when she calls.
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Post by freckles on Jan 18, 2008 17:44:21 GMT -5
She called me last night Drunk
This morning Sober
Saying She wants me to Marry Her
But , Now She Drinks 24/7
I told Her Dr Laura say that She has to be Sober and Drug free for 5 Years
She will not
I wish she would stop calling me or go to * Confined Treatment for the next 2 or 3 years
When She was Sober & acting nice on the Phone
I dont know why, I was streeming tears.
Oh well
I hope her beer makes her happy
I dont want it or anyone that does that in my presence
I have been around out of control hostile alcoholics way to much in my life
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Post by Saucy on Jan 18, 2008 18:40:28 GMT -5
Freckles I know you still love her. But its her actions that you don't love.
There are better woman for you out there. and i'm sure many people here have told you that. You don't have to cater to her everytime she calls. Don't let her have control of your emotions. You and i are alike, we are both way too nice. This time, try being an asshole to her. maybe then she would wake up and realize that she is making horrible mistakes.
tell her to Go Kick Rocks.
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Post by sheyd on Jan 18, 2008 19:03:54 GMT -5
I am so sorry you are going through this. You don't deserve to be toyed with this way. She keeps hoping you will let her run all over you again. If only she could get healthy - you probably would! The truth is, though, she won't. I'm sor sorry... I am sorry you are sad.
Shey
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Post by freckles on Jan 18, 2008 19:07:22 GMT -5
It's like someone knows what to do that is right/good
Yet they will not do that
She will Drink/Drug until She dies
Unless She is forced not to
Then She wont
Until She can
Oh Well
I dont have a Thousand Years to wait until She does right
I wish Her well
And I will live my Life without Her
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