Post by crushy on Mar 15, 2008 5:40:08 GMT -5
So, I had a mtg with my sons' Guardian ad Lit em. Although I am more than confident about my case and know he's read very little in terms of my case, he made the comment that my ex has one advantage because he's married. Before I knew what came out of my mouth I replied, 'So, if I go out and steal someone else's husband, I'd look more stable?' I hadn't mentioned the affair or that he'd married her 4 wks after our divorce was final because that was in the past, but he obviously hit a button.
I reminded him I am engaged to be married, but we have put it on hold for the sake of both of us not wanting to uproot our sons while in high school and not wanting to take my sons away from their ungrateful dad. I told him I've been with this man for over 3 yrs now and told him we are more than ready to get married, but have not for these reasons. I asked him if I can go ahead and marry the man I love and am engaged to (especially considering my sons were disappointed I didn't come back married to him last trip because they really like him and he spends more time with them than their dad). He said it would make a difference, but he would not give me legal advice. My attorney says it has absolutely NO bearing on the situation.
I'm putting my sons first. Something my ex has failed to do. All of these legal fees could provide so much for our sons' educations, etc. If he'd only paid the ONLY bill he took in the divorce, it would be much more amicable. My credit is almost an 'A' status again. This is all because he didn't want to pay $300 per mo on the only bill he took in the divorce, but managed to pay $300 per mo for a motor cycle that was not even street legal?
I want to get married. Does anyone know if that will create more concern I will up and move them to Texas or make me look more stable in the good old state of Utah where even a stolen husband is better than being single and self-sufficient?
Crushy
I reminded him I am engaged to be married, but we have put it on hold for the sake of both of us not wanting to uproot our sons while in high school and not wanting to take my sons away from their ungrateful dad. I told him I've been with this man for over 3 yrs now and told him we are more than ready to get married, but have not for these reasons. I asked him if I can go ahead and marry the man I love and am engaged to (especially considering my sons were disappointed I didn't come back married to him last trip because they really like him and he spends more time with them than their dad). He said it would make a difference, but he would not give me legal advice. My attorney says it has absolutely NO bearing on the situation.
I'm putting my sons first. Something my ex has failed to do. All of these legal fees could provide so much for our sons' educations, etc. If he'd only paid the ONLY bill he took in the divorce, it would be much more amicable. My credit is almost an 'A' status again. This is all because he didn't want to pay $300 per mo on the only bill he took in the divorce, but managed to pay $300 per mo for a motor cycle that was not even street legal?
I want to get married. Does anyone know if that will create more concern I will up and move them to Texas or make me look more stable in the good old state of Utah where even a stolen husband is better than being single and self-sufficient?
Crushy