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Post by goods on Mar 19, 2008 9:41:04 GMT -5
Divorced 9:45a EST 3/19/08 Three more months would have made six years.
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Post by Mod (PQ-Kermie) on Mar 19, 2008 10:03:08 GMT -5
Congrats!!
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Post by gdgross on Mar 19, 2008 10:12:55 GMT -5
When I got my notice I didn't know whether to celebrate or punch a hole in the wall... Congratulations??
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Post by goods on Mar 19, 2008 10:19:57 GMT -5
Thanks PQ & GD....
We were no contact for about 6 months... the past few weeks we have talked... She is a trainwreck right now, she knows it. I can't help her. Getting divorced was the "smart" decision for me.
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Post by sheyd on Mar 19, 2008 10:29:42 GMT -5
And where is your heart now, then? Are you doing ok, emotionally? Are you able to get distance now that it is final, feel less pressure to go back to that emotional rollercoaster?
Shey
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Post by goods on Mar 19, 2008 10:30:39 GMT -5
good questions Shey.
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Post by jules on Mar 19, 2008 10:32:29 GMT -5
I'm glad that you have that "official" closure. Thinking good thoughts for you as you continue to find closure within your heart, as well as continued healing and strength.
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Post by sheyd on Mar 19, 2008 10:41:25 GMT -5
And where do you place yourself on the answer range?
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Post by goods on Mar 19, 2008 10:44:46 GMT -5
And where do you place yourself on the answer range? When I know... you will.
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Post by RO on Mar 19, 2008 10:46:37 GMT -5
I felt the closure of some level but that final signing brought a whole new wave of emotions that I couldn't quite express at the time.
I felt relief, yet a loss of something...maybe of the time that I shared with this person that was supposed to be there forever...
I know that there is no way I would have wanted to continue on that toxic rollercoaster...but it is still a loss...
Hope things continue to improve for you.
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Post by murdock on Mar 19, 2008 16:12:10 GMT -5
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Post by lumpy on Mar 19, 2008 16:16:14 GMT -5
Congrats, Goods. Six years!?!? Damn. I thought mine took a long time.
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Post by finding on Mar 19, 2008 16:17:56 GMT -5
Congrats, now you can really start moving forward with your life.
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Post by goods on Mar 19, 2008 16:21:03 GMT -5
Congrats, Goods. Six years!?!? Damn. I thought mine took a long time. What I mean is 6/8/08 would have been our six year anniversary.
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Post by murdock on Mar 19, 2008 16:40:32 GMT -5
Goods signed the papers... and it is time to PARTY!!!!
I am so happy for you. You have come so far. You are a beautiful human being. I wish I was there to give you a great big hug and kiss!
xoxoxo b
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