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Post by Saucy on Mar 19, 2008 16:55:43 GMT -5
congrats goods. im glad you got that thingy out of the way. no-one and nothing can hold you down. the world is yours. you are an awesome man. and you deserve an awesome woman. lotts of love coming from this asian-persuassion..
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Post by goods on Mar 19, 2008 17:40:09 GMT -5
thanks for all the support everyone
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Post by lumpy on Mar 19, 2008 17:41:57 GMT -5
Congrats, Goods. Six years!?!? Damn. I thought mine took a long time. What I mean is 6/8/08 would have been our six year anniversary. Oh, I see. Mine took damn near three years to finalize. Hope you're holding up well.
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Post by pennylane on Mar 19, 2008 18:10:05 GMT -5
Congrats Goods. Getting closure can help you move on. Did you go to court? Was she there?
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Post by goods on Mar 19, 2008 18:23:03 GMT -5
Yes and yes, we sat next to each other talked.... for the past couple weeks we have talked a lot, BUT she is going through major drama.... turmoil... I can not save her, or be dragged down into it with her. My head and heart are in a battle royal.
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Post by jules on Mar 19, 2008 19:40:53 GMT -5
I hope your heart listens... and remembers that it needs to focus on loving you right now.
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Post by hope on Mar 19, 2008 20:11:13 GMT -5
Can I say both: "congratulations" and "I'm sorry".
That's kind of how I felt, alternately for awhile. Although with more sadness than anything initially. But in the end, it was a good thing. I think there is some pain that is good pain even though it hurts, and that was probably in that category.
Hope you're hanging in there. I will say after an initial dip, things looked up for me after it was final.
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Post by newts on Mar 19, 2008 20:31:33 GMT -5
You going to have a party? Divorce parties are so much fun and it's a dam good cause for celebration. Congrats!
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Post by sheyd on Mar 20, 2008 10:29:27 GMT -5
I hope your heart listens... and remembers that it needs to focus on loving you right now. I think it is is his heart that wants to betray him - that wants him dragged back into the emotional turmoil in the hopes of having a dream that doesn't exist... Shey
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Post by jules on Mar 20, 2008 10:50:05 GMT -5
Yes, Shey, sorry, I should have clarified that I hope his heart eventually listens to his head, since it's in the right place.
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Post by ionysis on Mar 20, 2008 14:35:45 GMT -5
Goods, I don't think the piece of paper helps to stop the emotional addiction. Sometimes I think nothing can. Like an alcoholic is never an ex-alcholic just always either "in recovery" or fallen off the wagon again. I hope you manage to stay sober and do what is right for you, no matter what that turns out to be. Best of luck and listen to both the angel and the demon on your shoulders as they both have value to add. Learn, live, love and take the chances that life offers. Wishing you all the best for this next chapter.
Xxx
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Post by rocko on Mar 20, 2008 15:06:41 GMT -5
Glad the legal part of it is over. If you need to vent or talk or anything, you have my number.
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Post by redskyatnight on Mar 20, 2008 16:51:24 GMT -5
Dang, wish I was closer, we could go get a beer and shoot some pool and not talk about it. Hang in there.
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Post by goods on Mar 20, 2008 17:58:23 GMT -5
thanks Hope... I hope so. newts... probably not, if I do you will get an invite Shey... you are right. jules you too ionysis you are a kindred spirit to me in many ways.. thank you Rocko, I may call.. but I am trying to work it out on my own. sapphire that's the plan for me tonight... beer and pool I took a road trip today to Augusta KY, just decided to take a drive and that's where I ended up. BTW if I kept going I would have been in Va.
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Post by goods on Mar 21, 2008 15:45:43 GMT -5
Got my official copy in the mail today..............
time to take the dogs to the park
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